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Weddings, Gambling, and Changing Fortunes
Weddings, Gambling, and Changing Fortunes
Most of the day was a success, but it ran into troubled waters in a big hurry.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
Half Of The Troubles Of This Life Can Be Traced To Saying Yes Too Quickly
Half Of The Troubles Of This Life Can Be Traced To Saying Yes Too Quickly
Sometimes, the wisest and kindest answer you can give is no.
Tim Dahi
Jun 21
Why GABA Is Important for Well-Being
Why GABA Is Important for Well-Being
How the brain chemical works and why it’s important for your health.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
What Anne Lamott Said to Me (Sort of)
What Anne Lamott Said to Me (Sort of)
Writers must support each other.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
7 Things You Should Think About When Considering Medication
7 Things You Should Think About When Considering Medication
To Medicate or Not-Part Two
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
Revolution of Love
Revolution of Love
Waking up to our shared humanity.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 20
Don’t Look for Hope, Create It
Don’t Look for Hope, Create It
You have hindsight. You have growth. You have the freedom it can bring.
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
It’s Time to Declutter: The 5-Step Checklist
It’s Time to Declutter: The 5-Step Checklist
Learning how to declutter your home responsibly is a lesson in how to be more sustainable all around. Pro tip: a checklist will help.
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
Man or Bear: What Evolutionary Science Can Tell Us About Male Violence and How to Stay Safe
Man or Bear: What Evolutionary Science Can Tell Us About Male Violence and How to Stay Safe
We can’t understand bears, men, or how to be safe unless we know something about evolutionary science.
The Good Men Project
Jun 19
Dear Mistress: An Open Letter To You
Dear Mistress: An Open Letter To You
A letter I never thought I’d have to write.
Julie Gaeta
Jun 19
High Sensitivity as a Super-Power: The Rules of Boyhood
High Sensitivity as a Super-Power: The Rules of Boyhood
I knew that I could never allow them to see my innate sensitivity because it would be deemed a weakness.
The Good Men Project
Jun 19
How I Identified My Learning Preferences in My Critical Thinking Practice
How I Identified My Learning Preferences in My Critical Thinking Practice
Photo by Jeffery Erhunse on Unsplash: Using All of Your Senses to Learn
The Coaching Project: The Race to Help Humanity
Jun 18
Let’s Go, Do a Quick Calculation with Me
Let’s Go, Do a Quick Calculation with Me
The power of reflection.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 18
Dead Woman Hollow
Dead Woman Hollow
Dead Woman Hollow is an introvert’s dream.
The Good Men Project
Jun 18
Return on Sleeplessness
Return on Sleeplessness
How many sleepless nights are in our future? And is that future sleeplessness worth it?
The Good Men Project
Jun 18
What If The Definition of Being ‘Productive’ Changed?
What If The Definition of Being ‘Productive’ Changed?
We live in a world with ‘productivity’ as its life resource for the world’s economy. What about our internal economy?
Cassandra Boh
Jun 18
Keeping Your Mind Open To Opportunities
Keeping Your Mind Open To Opportunities
“How much I missed, simply because I was afraid of missing it.” — Paulo Coelho
Drew Morrison
Jun 17
Why Intermittent Fasting Could Be a Dream Solution for Your Ulcerative Colitis Nightmare
Why Intermittent Fasting Could Be a Dream Solution for Your Ulcerative Colitis Nightmare
This Ain’t Fasting Jesus Style…
The Good Men Project
Jun 17
The Single Best Way to Fall Asleep Quickly
The Single Best Way to Fall Asleep Quickly
Having insomnia sucks but this will help you nod off.
Paddy Murphy
Jun 17
Today is the Day!
Today is the Day!
Prioritizing Yourself
Lost in My Soul
Jun 17
Writing About Abusive Parents: Am I Glad My Mother Is Dead?
Writing About Abusive Parents: Am I Glad My Mother Is Dead?
Those of us who have endured lives with physically, sexually, or psychologically abusive parents might imagine that they will feel the some…
The Good Men Project
Jun 17
Excited to Present at the 44th Annual Conference for Critical Thinking
Excited to Present at the 44th Annual Conference for Critical Thinking
How Thinking Critically About Industry Failures Help Smart Young Professionals
The Coaching Project: The Race to Help Humanity
Jun 16
Individual Label or United Human Race?
Individual Label or United Human Race?
We are all on the same team. We just refuse to believe it sometimes.
The Good Men Project
Jun 16
What Is Maladaptive Perfectionism?
What Is Maladaptive Perfectionism?
Some perfectionism can negatively affect your well-being.
The Good Men Project
Jun 16
My Marriage Is Completely Sexless. Is It Ok To Sleep With Someone Else?
My Marriage Is Completely Sexless. Is It Ok To Sleep With Someone Else?
I am very sexually frustrated.
The Good Men Project
Jun 16
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