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Breaking the Distance Barrier
Breaking the Distance Barrier
Bridging the gap in our busy lives.
Lost in My Soul
Jul 7
Dear Ex, You Thought You Broke Me, but It Was Exactly What I Needed
Dear Ex, You Thought You Broke Me, but It Was Exactly What I Needed
Moonshot mindset: How I used my heartbreak as fuel for a better life.
Julie Gaeta
Jul 7
You’ve Reached the Goal; Now What?
You’ve Reached the Goal; Now What?
The dip is simply your paradigm trying to keep you in your comfort zone.
The Good Men Project
Jul 7
If You Want to Go Far, Go Together
If You Want to Go Far, Go Together
I am a more empathic and conscious human being when I am working in a community.
The Good Men Project
Jul 7
A Truth I Learned About Toxic, Manipulative People
A Truth I Learned About Toxic, Manipulative People
How some self-help books are distorting and damaging our relationships
Mónica Valverde
Jul 7
Did You Create Your Brain Health? How Our Choices Impact Our Mental Health — Take the Quiz!
Did You Create Your Brain Health? How Our Choices Impact Our Mental Health — Take the Quiz!
By Deborah Holmen, M.Ed., NBCT
Deborah Holmén
Jul 6
From Self-Centered to Heart-Centered
From Self-Centered to Heart-Centered
Here are some critical steps in this transformative journey
The Good Men Project
Jul 6
Black Eye to Black Belt: The Ass Kicking That Saved My Life
Black Eye to Black Belt: The Ass Kicking That Saved My Life
FIGHTER: The Song and the Story Behind My Battle Against Bullies
The Good Men Project
Jul 6
Times Change
Times Change
Another sad casualty of the modern era.
The Good Men Project
Jul 5
Beyond the Hollow: Confronting Our Inner Darkness to Achieve Self-Actualization
Beyond the Hollow: Confronting Our Inner Darkness to Achieve Self-Actualization
The journey of self-actualization is profound and introspective. It requires us to look inward, confront our flaws, and embrace our…
The Good Men Project
Jul 5
I Became My Dad When I Became a Dad
I Became My Dad When I Became a Dad
I’m my daughter’s personal hype man. Everything she does is amazing, and I treat it as such.
The Good Men Project
Jul 5
“The Most Connected Man on the Planet” Says That THESE are the 3 Keys to Connecting with Others
“The Most Connected Man on the Planet” Says That THESE are the 3 Keys to Connecting with Others
It costs $25,000/year to join his professional network, but I’m leaking some of his best advice for free.
Matt Karamazov
Jul 5
Still Got It!
Still Got It!
A little exercise and nostalgia? Both of those can go a long way.
The Good Men Project
Jul 5
A Powerful Question for You After Divorce
A Powerful Question for You After Divorce
Creating a life you love after divorce: A step-by-step guide.
Julie Gaeta
Jul 4
Navigating Love After Loss: Insights and Advice for Dating a Widower
Navigating Love After Loss: Insights and Advice for Dating a Widower
Understanding the complexities and embracing the journey.
Deborah Holmén
Jul 4
Cities Respond to Global Pollinator Decline
Cities Respond to Global Pollinator Decline
From pocket parks to large-scale projects, cities around the world are working to reverse a troubling trend.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
Finding the Middle Ground: Why Going All Out 24/7 Is Dumb
Finding the Middle Ground: Why Going All Out 24/7 Is Dumb
Life’s way better when you’re not always on the edge.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
What Dreams Can Do for You
What Dreams Can Do for You
Analyzing my dreams triggered an exploration of my current circumstances.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
The Art of Using Words
The Art of Using Words
Words that shape our lives: from first utterances to final goodbyes.
Jasmine Aneja
Jul 3
Faded Hopes: Dreaming of Better Days
Faded Hopes: Dreaming of Better Days
People are people, and people are uncomfortable with people they don’t know.
The Good Men Project
Jul 3
How to Make a Decision That Scares You
How to Make a Decision That Scares You
Why cultivating active patience, listening to your intuition, and maintaining confidence in difficult situations are important traits for…
The Good Men Project
Jul 3
My Not-So-Secret Garden
My Not-So-Secret Garden
Who would have thought that a New York City girl like me would become a gardener on our 31st floor balcony?
The Good Men Project
Jul 2
Unconditional You
Unconditional You
Finding happiness wherever you choose to be.
Lost in My Soul
Jul 2
Why Do We Hurt Ourselves?
Why Do We Hurt Ourselves?
Like moths to the flame, we fly towards it, again, and again, and again.
Paddy Murphy
Jul 2
The Big Impact of Small Gestures
The Big Impact of Small Gestures
Small gestures are most strongly felt once they are absent.
The Good Men Project
Jul 2
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