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Anxiety vs. Bad Habits: How to Identify What’s Really Affecting You
Anxiety vs. Bad Habits: How to Identify What’s Really Affecting You
Identifying the Red Flags and How to Address Them
Shweta L
Sep 2
The Dollar Dilemma: Why Chasing Money Will Never Make You Super(man) Happy
The Dollar Dilemma: Why Chasing Money Will Never Make You Super(man) Happy
The greatest riches are not found in bank vaults, but in the hearts and minds we touch.
The Good Men Project
Sep 2
What This 9,000,000-Copy Bestselling Novel Taught Me About the Greatness of Humanity
What This 9,000,000-Copy Bestselling Novel Taught Me About the Greatness of Humanity
Whether it’s greatness or awfulness, you’ll find whatever you’re looking for.
Matt Karamazov
Sep 1
Unwinnable: When You Are Playing a Rigged Game
Unwinnable: When You Are Playing a Rigged Game
Instead of questioning “why do I keep losing?”, candidates may want to consider “did I have a fair chance in the first place?”
The Good Men Project
Sep 1
Stopping The Negative Stigma: Understanding Addiction
Stopping The Negative Stigma: Understanding Addiction
Help to shift the perspective on addiction.
Dawn D
Sep 1
Learning Through Unlearning
Learning Through Unlearning
Unlearning is essentially proper discernment, being able to admit when we are wrong, and update our beliefs accordingly.
The Good Men Project
Sep 1
You Are Forgiven
You Are Forgiven
You are forgiven for freezing in agony instead of taking the small step forward that you are indeed capable of.
The Good Men Project
Aug 31
3 Morning Habits That May Be Sabotaging Your Weight Loss (And How to Change Them)
3 Morning Habits That May Be Sabotaging Your Weight Loss (And How to Change Them)
Simple changes you can make today to turn things around.
Julie Gaeta
Aug 31
A Quiet Code: The Three Principles That Define My Life and Music
A Quiet Code: The Three Principles That Define My Life and Music
These are the qualities I try to instill in and teach to my sons.
The Good Men Project
Aug 31
The Ants Go Marching
The Ants Go Marching
We’ve moved beyond freaked out and disgusted.
The Good Men Project
Aug 30
Flaky People Are Toxic and Why You Should Cut Them Out Of Your Life
Flaky People Are Toxic and Why You Should Cut Them Out Of Your Life
Some people aren’t worth keeping in your orbit.
Drew Morrison
Aug 30
Imposter or Imposter Syndrome? — Navigating Self-Perception in Your Career
Imposter or Imposter Syndrome? — Navigating Self-Perception in Your Career
Do we indeed have development areas that we need to tackle, or are we really imposters?
The Good Men Project
Aug 30
The Ripple Effect of Our Actions
The Ripple Effect of Our Actions
Creating a better world.
Lost in My Soul
Aug 30
In the Company of Tomatoes
In the Company of Tomatoes
I spent nine years alone and raised eight gardens.
The Good Men Project
Aug 30
Don’t Blame Time For Your Lack of Time!
Don’t Blame Time For Your Lack of Time!
Prioritizing what truly matters.
Lost in My Soul
Aug 29
Do You Have the Courage to Be Disliked?
Do You Have the Courage to Be Disliked?
I spent a lot of years hiding who I was from the world.
The Good Men Project
Aug 29
Don’t Read the Comments
Don’t Read the Comments
DEI is the newest swear word in the dictionary.
The Good Men Project
Aug 28
The Crushing Cost of Conservative Retirement Planning
The Crushing Cost of Conservative Retirement Planning
True retirement planning is far more nuanced, using complicated software tools that simulate thousands of possible investment outcomes.
The Good Men Project
Aug 28
It’s Time You Have a Mental Reset
It’s Time You Have a Mental Reset
As we struggle through life, it’s a basic mistake to fall into patterns embedded in our nature. Our worldview is concrete, our goals appear…
Dennis • M.Sc.
Aug 28
10 Strategies to Thrive in Your First People Manager Role
10 Strategies to Thrive in Your First People Manager Role
Managing people can also be incredibly rewarding as it offers the opportunity to shape and inspire a team, fostering both individual growth…
The Good Men Project
Aug 28
What Is Tapping (EFT)?
What Is Tapping (EFT)?
Tapping can quickly release pressure and restore balance.
The Good Men Project
Aug 27
I Had Brunch with My Inner Critic
I Had Brunch with My Inner Critic
The second-best part was the bottomless mimosas.
Jason Henry
Aug 27
A Life of Leisure, With Purpose
A Life of Leisure, With Purpose
Life on the other side of employment is tricky.
The Good Men Project
Aug 27
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Breaks and Fractures
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Breaks and Fractures
Many pundits suggest that smart, creative, sensitive people are more susceptible to “mental illnesses” like bipolar disorder, depression…
The Good Men Project
Aug 27
Feeling Lost at 40? Here’s How to Rediscover Your Purpose and Thrive
Feeling Lost at 40? Here’s How to Rediscover Your Purpose and Thrive
Imagine this: You’re in your 40s, you’ve checked all the boxes — education, career, family, but something still feels off.
Natalya Permyakova
Aug 27
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