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The Hazards and Blessings of Being Male: Embracing the Seven Challenges for a Successful Life
The Hazards and Blessings of Being Male: Embracing the Seven Challenges for a Successful Life
“The male has paid a heavy price for his masculine ‘privilege’ and power. He is out of touch with his emotions and his body.”
The Good Men Project
Jun 25
Mid-Life Crisis: Myths, Realities, And Breaking Free From Feeling Stuck
Mid-Life Crisis: Myths, Realities, And Breaking Free From Feeling Stuck
Have you ever found yourself staring out the window, wondering, “Is this really it?” You’re not alone. Many people hit this wall. It’s what…
Natalya Permyakova
Jun 25
How I Transformed My Grief
How I Transformed My Grief
Every moment we are given with each other is a gift, and there is a reason, purpose, and meaning behind every living being with whom we…
The Good Men Project
Jun 25
Ditching Doubt
Ditching Doubt
Owning Your Decisions and Living with Purpose
Lost in My Soul
Jun 24
Twenty.
Twenty.
A Self-Indulgent Bit of Drib-Drab That Might Also Make You Think…Just Maybe.
Ashanti Celeste
Jun 24
3 Ways Journaling Can Help You Be More Productive, Focused and Motivated
3 Ways Journaling Can Help You Be More Productive, Focused and Motivated
May journaling support you to live a productive and self-aware life.
The Good Men Project
Jun 24
6 Reasons Why You Can Stop Feeling Bad for Being You
6 Reasons Why You Can Stop Feeling Bad for Being You
There is so much to be gained from accepting our Intrinsic Worth and knowing we are enough.
The Good Men Project
Jun 24
Killing Time at ORD
Killing Time at ORD
TSA might be watching.
The Good Men Project
Jun 23
The Disconnect Epidemic
The Disconnect Epidemic
How technology steals our attention.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 23
This ONE Simple Psychological Trick is Guaranteed to Unlock Total Focus for 16+ HOURS
This ONE Simple Psychological Trick is Guaranteed to Unlock Total Focus for 16+ HOURS
It takes just 8 seconds to complete and I’ve been seeing mind-blowing results.
Matt Karamazov
Jun 23
Aging Isn’t an Illness to Recover From
Aging Isn’t an Illness to Recover From
Lowering our resistance to living with kindness.
The Good Men Project
Jun 23
The Power of Expectation
The Power of Expectation
Shaping tour reality with thought.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 22
High Sensitivity as a Super-Power: Your Finely Tuned Instrument Is Waiting to Be Played
High Sensitivity as a Super-Power: Your Finely Tuned Instrument Is Waiting to Be Played
Sensitivity isn’t a dam to be reinforced, it’s an ocean, vast and powerful.
The Good Men Project
Jun 22
Feeling All the Feels and the Neighborhood of Make-Believe
Feeling All the Feels and the Neighborhood of Make-Believe
It would be very nice if we had an adult version of the Neighborhood of Make-Believe so that we could create a way for full-grown adults to…
The Good Men Project
Jun 22
Weddings, Gambling, and Changing Fortunes
Weddings, Gambling, and Changing Fortunes
Most of the day was a success, but it ran into troubled waters in a big hurry.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
Half Of The Troubles Of This Life Can Be Traced To Saying Yes Too Quickly
Half Of The Troubles Of This Life Can Be Traced To Saying Yes Too Quickly
Sometimes, the wisest and kindest answer you can give is no.
Tim Dahi
Jun 21
Why GABA Is Important for Well-Being
Why GABA Is Important for Well-Being
How the brain chemical works and why it’s important for your health.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
What Anne Lamott Said to Me (Sort of)
What Anne Lamott Said to Me (Sort of)
Writers must support each other.
The Good Men Project
Jun 21
7 Things You Should Think About When Considering Medication
7 Things You Should Think About When Considering Medication
To Medicate or Not-Part Two
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
Revolution of Love
Revolution of Love
Waking up to our shared humanity.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 20
Don’t Look for Hope, Create It
Don’t Look for Hope, Create It
You have hindsight. You have growth. You have the freedom it can bring.
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
It’s Time to Declutter: The 5-Step Checklist
It’s Time to Declutter: The 5-Step Checklist
Learning how to declutter your home responsibly is a lesson in how to be more sustainable all around. Pro tip: a checklist will help.
The Good Men Project
Jun 20
Man or Bear: What Evolutionary Science Can Tell Us About Male Violence and How to Stay Safe
Man or Bear: What Evolutionary Science Can Tell Us About Male Violence and How to Stay Safe
We can’t understand bears, men, or how to be safe unless we know something about evolutionary science.
The Good Men Project
Jun 19
Dear Mistress: An Open Letter To You
Dear Mistress: An Open Letter To You
A letter I never thought I’d have to write.
Julie Gaeta
Jun 19
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