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Be Mindful About Your Life: All Activity Is Either Input or Output
Be Mindful About Your Life: All Activity Is Either Input or Output
Ask yourself in moments of doubt, “Is this towards my higher purpose, or away from my higher purpose?” Then choose accordingly.
The Good Men Project
Jun 10
Some Strange Music
Some Strange Music
One might wonder why a straight, married, middle-aged (OK, oldish) guy like me identified with a novel about a teenage girl and a trans…
The Good Men Project
Jun 9
What ‘Baby Reindeer’ Taught Me About Myself
What ‘Baby Reindeer’ Taught Me About Myself
How do we talk about stalking in a way that is both accurate and kind?
Rivka Wolf
Jun 9
How Not to Die: Granny Wisdom and Mountain Magic
How Not to Die: Granny Wisdom and Mountain Magic
The power of greens.
The Good Men Project
Jun 9
What Makes a Hero?
What Makes a Hero?
You can’t mess with time without turning the world upside down — not even a little bit.
The Good Men Project
Jun 8
15 Aging Challenges Men Hope to Avoid
15 Aging Challenges Men Hope to Avoid
Let’s face it, guys — getting older isn’t always a walk in the park. As the years tick by, our bodies and minds undergo some changes that…
The Good Men Project
Jun 8
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Five Unpleasant Feelings
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Five Unpleasant Feelings
Smart people typically experience the following five identifiable feelings: they feel different; they feel misunderstood; they feel…
The Good Men Project
Jun 7
5 Powerful Strategies to Thrive Through Life’s Unexpected Challenges
5 Powerful Strategies to Thrive Through Life’s Unexpected Challenges
Facing adversity is an inevitable part of the human experience; however, it’s how we respond to these challenges that ultimately determines…
The Good Men Project
Jun 7
You’re Not Stuck, You Just Need Time
You’re Not Stuck, You Just Need Time
The three biggest things I needed to know to leave my job.
Zackary Henson
Jun 7
Love Heals All (Even Your Inner Critic)
Love Heals All (Even Your Inner Critic)
Finding Peace Within
Lost in My Soul
Jun 7
Present Over Perfect
Present Over Perfect
Joy in the Everyday Moments
Lost in My Soul
Jun 6
Three Popular Insults I Take as Sincere Compliments
Three Popular Insults I Take as Sincere Compliments
You didn’t mean it to be sweet, but that’s how I’m taking it
Crystal Jackson
Jun 6
How Do I Stop Wasting My Time Trying to Meet People?
How Do I Stop Wasting My Time Trying to Meet People?
I wasted a lot of time dating toxic and incompatible women.
The Good Men Project
Jun 6
Are We All Just Trying to Figure It Out?
Are We All Just Trying to Figure It Out?
Changing our hurtful habits.
The Good Men Project
Jun 6
Why Action is the Antidote to Feeling Stuck in Life
Why Action is the Antidote to Feeling Stuck in Life
Introduction
Natalya Permyakova
Jun 6
Eighty Years Ago America Led the DDay Invasion
Eighty Years Ago America Led the DDay Invasion
We became a superpower on that day.
Mandy McElroy
Jun 6
How Learning to Communicate Better Transformed My Writing, Self-Esteem, and Relationships
How Learning to Communicate Better Transformed My Writing, Self-Esteem, and Relationships
Three simple lessons that can improve your life.
Seth Carlson
Jun 6
Two Ways to Respond to Someone’s Pain
Two Ways to Respond to Someone’s Pain
Being listened to and taken seriously is healing.
The Good Men Project
Jun 6
Flow Within
Flow Within
Finding peace by trusting the current
Lost in My Soul
Jun 5
I Proposed to My Crush After 5 Years.
I Proposed to My Crush After 5 Years.
Did she say ‘YES’?
Shubham Kumar
Jun 5
How Psychologists Help People Improve Self-Belief
How Psychologists Help People Improve Self-Belief
We take a look at some of the techniques used to bolster self-confidence.
Paddy Murphy
Jun 5
An Actress, a Witch, and Me
An Actress, a Witch, and Me
Don’t you want your witches to be . . . shall we say . . . witchy?
The Good Men Project
Jun 5
An Open Letter to my Ex-Boyfriend
An Open Letter to my Ex-Boyfriend
This is an E-Mail I wrote right after my break-up with my then-boyfriend. I never dared to send it to him, but now, 2 years later, when I…
Annabelle
Jun 4
Dream Killer or Dream Fuel?
Dream Killer or Dream Fuel?
How to turn criticism into your superpower.
Lost in My Soul
Jun 4
Trust: What Does it Mean?
Trust: What Does it Mean?
It’s such a wonderful thing to say, “I trust you”.
The Good Men Project
Jun 4
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