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Journal Prompts for Smart People: The Smart Gap
Journal Prompts for Smart People: The Smart Gap
“The smart gap,” is the distance between the intelligence you’re currently manifesting and the intelligence you actually need in
The Good Men Project
May 9
A Phrase to Remove From Your Vocabulary Right Now!
A Phrase to Remove From Your Vocabulary Right Now!
Stop fighting for your limitations and start fighting for the power that is already inside of you, just waiting to emerge.
The Good Men Project
May 9
The Price of Suppressed Dreams
The Price of Suppressed Dreams
Regret vs. Disapproval on Life’s Journey
Lost in My Soul
May 9
! Respiro ! … (! I breathe! ) …
! Respiro ! … (! I breathe! ) …
My Asthmatic Memoir by Ruben Avilio Mauricio
Ruben Mauricio
May 9
If Imitation Is the Highest Form of Flattery, Why Hate AI?
If Imitation Is the Highest Form of Flattery, Why Hate AI?
“The current version of AI is merely a very clever tool, not an intelligence, and certainly not a unique personality.”
The Good Men Project
May 8
You Are Enough
You Are Enough
Honoring your needs while contributing to the collective.
Lost in My Soul
May 8
Enjoying a Re-Run, for the First Time
Enjoying a Re-Run, for the First Time
Strange trips give life meaning, little escapes that make work seem worth the effort.
The Good Men Project
May 8
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Inner Noise as a Thinking Blocker
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Inner Noise as a Thinking Blocker
We may misunderstand or underestimate our native intelligence if, all our life, our inner environment has been too noisy
The Good Men Project
May 7
The Trouble with “Yes” or “No”
The Trouble with “Yes” or “No”
Why life prefers a conversation over simple answers.
Lost in My Soul
May 7
The Purpose of Inconvenience
The Purpose of Inconvenience
The purpose of inconvenience is to make large problems manageable.
The Good Men Project
May 7
A Simplified Look at the Savings Rate
A Simplified Look at the Savings Rate
The basics behind the Financial Independence and Retire Early movement is to have enough lump sum or passive income to pay of your desired…
The Good Men Project
May 6
10 Questions to Make You a Productivity Wizard
10 Questions to Make You a Productivity Wizard
— No Magic Wand Required!
Teronie Donaldson
May 6
The Hunger of the Soul
The Hunger of the Soul
Recognizing our need for self-love and inner support.
Lost in My Soul
May 6
Being Mad Doesn’t Mean You’re Bad
Being Mad Doesn’t Mean You’re Bad
The metaphor of a “speed limit”* in terms of anger can help people see that anger is a) a real, legitimate human experience, and b) does…
The Good Men Project
May 6
Will You Live Your Story?
Will You Live Your Story?
We’re being stopped by what we think we have to be.
Zackary Henson
May 5
Why the NIMH Should Pivot Some Mental Health Research From the Brain to the Mind
Why the NIMH Should Pivot Some Mental Health Research From the Brain to the Mind
Some Supported Mental Health Research by the NIMH could be based on a model of mind or signals, exceeding genes and circuits.
The Good Men Project
May 5
Who Controls You?
Who Controls You?
How to regain control of your mind.
Kunal Mehra
May 5
Hey, You. Yes, You! You Matter.
Hey, You. Yes, You! You Matter.
Yes, you. We all do.
The Good Men Project
May 5
Lost in Translation
Lost in Translation
When Life Speaks a Different Language
Lost in My Soul
May 5
How Sleep Disorders Affect Your Well-Being
How Sleep Disorders Affect Your Well-Being
Getting enough sleep is one of the most important things you can do for your mental and physical health.
The Good Men Project
May 4
Burning Bridges, Not in the Sun
Burning Bridges, Not in the Sun
Letting go of what holds you back.
Lost in My Soul
May 4
I Am Dead Afraid of Turning 30 This Year
I Am Dead Afraid of Turning 30 This Year
Did I make the most of my twenties?
Jaclyn Ha
May 4
Break Through Your ‘Busy’ Blind Spots
Break Through Your ‘Busy’ Blind Spots
You’re accomplishing all of the things you want to accomplish and are still left feeling unfulfilled.
The Good Men Project
May 4
Why Comparison Is The Thief Of Joy
Why Comparison Is The Thief Of Joy
Comparing yourself to others is a mistake that you never want to make.
Drew Morrison
May 3
5 Common Mistakes to Avoid Around Someone With ADHD
5 Common Mistakes to Avoid Around Someone With ADHD
Have you ever considered that the person sitting next to you, the one who might seem a bit disorganized or overly energetic, could be…
The Good Men Project
May 3
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