One of the tools I’ve used over the years in for my own growth has been Family Constellations. While often done in groups, it can also be done in pairs, and I’ve had success working this way solo.
originally composed 4 January 2015
Incest sucks. I recommend avoiding it as much as possible. For me, it wasn’t possible, and growing up in an environment in which it’s running rampant in secret flat out…
Once I knew what had happened, I started trying different approaches to find out what worked. It took a while to find dancing again, this time Lindy Hop, and reboot some semblance of a social life. I started working as a support tech for Windows 95 — hey, that emotional labor…