Life-Lessons

5 Frequent Reasons Why People Tend To Secretly Hate You

There is no such thing as “being hated for no particular reason.”

Mila
ILLUMINATION
Published in
5 min readApr 4, 2021

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Don’t want to be hated?

Then just sit on the sidelines, do nothing, don’t reach your goals, be average, boring and no one will hate you! It’s that easy.

I can’t do that though. I am a warrior. Therefore, I have haters.

The more successful, happier, healthier I am — the more haters I gain.

We share the same “fears”: missing out on life, desire to look great and feel amazing, lead a better life.

But there is one crucial difference between me and my haters — I am taking the steps to achieve these things and I am living my dream, while they are over-consumed by their fear, frustration, and misery.

I used to think “Why I am being hated? There is no reason for these people to hate me!” Poor me, right?

I was wrong — there is a reason, there is more than just one reason for people hating me. I found 5 of them, here they are.

1. They Hate You Because You Have Choices, While They Don’t

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Mila
ILLUMINATION

Writer, Screenwriter, Role Model and just ultra-cool babe. I’m fearless. I’m a writer. I don’t quit. I use my imagination to inspire others! I know who I am!