How to Recognize a High-Valued Man
High value is not the same as High Earner. A High-Value woman knows the difference.
What is meant by Value?
A person’s principles or standards of behavior; one’s judgment of what is important in life. The beliefs people have, especially about what is right and wrong, that control their behavior.
Believe it or not, there is a multitude of highly valued men out there, more than you may realize. They can be found in various walks of life. Many of them are already taken, being married, and having children. Others are single fathers, bravely taking on the responsibilities of raising their children alone and some have chosen to be single, focusing on their personal growth and fulfillment. This shift in the dynamics of relationships is a reflection of the evolving nature of modern American women. It’s important to acknowledge that many of these successful, single men are no longer waiting around for love to find them. Instead, they are embracing new adventures and experiences, exploring the world with their passports in hand. So, keep an open mind, for these remarkable men are out there, waiting to be discovered.
A High-Valued man is genuine and dedicated to his family. He has character, order, integrity, direction, stability, decisiveness, and emotional intelligence. Notice I didn’t say anything about his physical appearance. Although most men in this category take good care of themselves, mentally and physically. Most high-valued men are not seen because they are not flashy. They have nothing to prove. They may be driving an old pickup truck to the hardware store for a new DIY project in his home. A High-Value man needs someone to follow his lead, and having someone less experienced will give him the best chance for that. A high-valued man most likely will want children, therefore younger is better.
A High-valued man may still need to figure out his finances, and this is where the two of you may cross paths. If a high-valued man has not fully achieved his goals, he is in the process. You can see his vision clearly in motion. You will not fully understand it but this is the best time to start to invest. Investing is not just about money. Time with ideas can be more valuable. Get relaxed inside his mind of no limits. See yourself there. If you see yourself there he plans for you to be there. Don’t tell him that you believe in him. Belief leaves room for doubt. Never tell him what he cannot do or what will not work in his dream. Tell him that you know what he is capable of doing. Talk to the God in him from day one.
A high-value man is going to give directions with instructions, some verbally and some instinctively, and he will ask the hard questions, holding one accountable. His time is valuable. What he is looking for is a stay-at-home wife and mom. Keep in mind that we are talking about a particular man. A man who speaks life into those around him with the power of God. A man who knows what he believes in because he is not going to conform to another’s religious ideologies. One must conform to whatever his ideology is. To be honest, religion does not matter as much as culture. It is the culture that tells the most about a person. Religions are manmade. They share the same concept with slightly different rituals. Ladies you don’t want a man who believes what he is doing, you want a man that knows what he is doing and what he is capable of. Knowledge is stronger than belief.
I read an article on fb, Beautiful young girl gets intimidated by a high-value man while on a date. To make a long story short, on about their third or fourth date, (let’s call him Malcolm) Malcolm invited (let’s call her Sarah) Sarah to his home. He sent a very nice Uber to pick her up. When she arrived he was there to greet them, opening her car door, and tipping the driver. He walked her into his home showing her around as the smell of fresh herbs and vegetables blessed the scene. The house was clean, smelled good, and was well-manicured. Malcolm had a well-mannered Shih-Tzu named Winston who Sarah fell in love with. Dinner was amazing and so was the evening. After dinner, Malcolm cleaned up the table and kitchen, asking for Sarah’s assistance. She first felt appalled that he had asked but was too intimidated to say no. She helped but not as if she was glad to. They watched a movie as they talked and kissed a few times. After the movie, he took her back to her place.
As soon as Sarah arrived at her apartment she called her single girlfriends to spill the tea. She explained, what does a man like that need with a bitch like me? He cooks, he cleans, he has a nice car and his own place. She became too overwhelmed with the energy and ended up sabotaging the relationship because she could not see where she would fit into his life. This was a situation that she could not control. She was afraid of not being good enough for this man. She didn’t know when to stop talking, so she ran back into the jungle to find men who were more like her, damaged and delusional, to continue to run up her body count, as her chances at real love faded like a thief in the night.
From the outside looking in we can say that had Sarah been able to conform, had she had her mind focused on looking for a husband, had she prepared for the part of being a wife, she could have been rescued from the wild. And as far as she could have tapped into her feminine energy the easier her life would have been. However, it’s not that simple. It’s spiritual. This is an energy that little girls who grew up with their father’s love possess. This is the energy most foreign women are born into. It’s not about one’s color. It’s their spiritual culture. Sarah grew up without an understanding of how a man is supposed to show up in her life. She grew up witnessing her mother’s failed relationships and not trusting men. She grew up without a Father like most of us.
Good Man Training (101)
For the most part, a good man will show a woman exactly how he wants to be treated by the way he treats her, starting from day one. Of course, every case is different. Generally speaking, in the beginning, a man will be on his best behavior for several reasons. If you are the one, he wants to be the one for you. He wants to see just how comfortable he can be before he can shed the representative jacket. He wants to see what he can talk about that you all have in common, and how will the most important things in his life be received. If his business is what is currently most important, water it. Allow him the space to share. From day one men are the biggest investors in the relationship, starting with Can I pay for some of your time having drinks, lunch, or dinner? We understand that we make money to be in control of most situations and to be depended on by many. All we want is to be able to enjoy what we spend our time and finances on with appreciation.
The purpose of relationships is to join forces to grow toward a common interest. The interest is making life easier. Life is so easy with the right life partner. What women do not realize is that they have the power to control men. Women will never win by trying to maintain a man physically or with masculine energy, just as a man will never win an argument with a woman emotionally with feminine energy. If a man trusts you he will honor your opinion as his own. The level of feminine energy determines this level of trust he feels with you. The more feminine the more he wants to open up, share, and please. This is how to control a good man. This is Queen, Goddess-type energy. The less feminine the less control, the more stress.
God is Love
Order of the home; God, man, woman, and children. Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. This is biology. This is our beginning.
God the Father, God the Son, and God the holy spirit. Holy: sacred, special. Spirit: character, personality, soul; the nonphysical element of a person.
When mothers deny a boy from having a relationship with his biological father, it is a form of emasculation. When mothers deny a little girl from having a relationship with her biological father, it is a form of defimination. They are both early stages of mental abuse. They are being denied the right to the spiritual and biological information needed about themselves to become confident and healthy people. It is similar to how slave masters keep the records of our history away from us. If we don’t know where we come from we don’t know where we are going.
70% to 80% of inmates come from single-mother homes. Prisons profit 74 billion dollars a year. Is this just a coincidence? I think not. This is our culture, this is a constructed system and for some odd reason, we can’t break free of it. Mothers teach love, while fathers teach survival. Single fathers produce similar statistics to those of homes with two parents. The key to keeping our children out of prison is the father. But Mothers are awarded custody 90% of the time. Women are incentivized to have babies out of wedlock and to leave relationships where there are children involved, leaving the kid’s father financially crippled with no remorse.
Without the encouragement of your Father, the world is a dismal place. Jordan Peterson.
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