Abuse Has No Excuse

If You Give The Narcissistic Woman Control, Then You Will Free Yourself From Abuse

What she wants will ultimately destroy her.

Mila
ILLUMINATION
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7 min readNov 2, 2021

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I was unlucky enough to have caught the attention of a very miserable narcissistic woman. This woman is a full-blown narcissist that is unable to hide her toxic, abusive tendencies. I’ve managed to eliminate her presence from my life (and it included getting as far as away as possible from her), or so I thought.

But somehow she keeps coming back, hoping to fulfill her nasty, miserable agenda.

I wonder, will she ever realize how miserable she truly is? Will she ever realize that the only person she is truly harming is herself? Does she know that she has become a laughingstock?

Well, the last statement is not quite right as narcissists are always a joke. And all we should do is just keep laughing at them just as Maxwell Jordan suggests.

Anyway, narcissists want only one thing — control.

To have ultimate control over your feelings, actions, and your life.

For years I tried to stop her from having control over me: I’ve tried to engage, reason, explain, fight, argue, plea, help, support, and so on. I hoped by doing all of this I…

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