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Leaders don’t make followers

If you want to be a leader- in any field in your life- don’t make followers. Create leaders!

Reason #1

You will learn so much more in sharing your craft/skills than you will in hiding them in the fear that no one can else…

What to do about the C-bet?

In poker, a c-bet or a continuation bet is a bet made by the last preflop aggressor.

If you don’t play poker (and neither do I at the moment. Although I have just started teaching it to myself in the last few days and it is already started to come in…

What a magical world!

Below are a few of the many Harry Potter spells (along with their uses). I am going for another big Harry Potter analogy today because I know a lot of our readers love Harry Potter.

- Accio (summoning charm)

How you pack is how you do everything

I can proudly say that I have rarely if ever found myself out of town having forgotten to bring something that I might need for the trip. The reason is simply this- when packing I think of my day from start to finish- I think of the exact chronology of things I do…

Use it well

Another way to think of somebody’s death could be that their time is over.

However, time doesn’t suddenly get over in the moment of death. It is a reserve that slowly runs out as you go about living your life. Think about this for a moment.

When the going gets tough…

I have been following the core idea behind this very famous quote for most of my life (even before I heard of it)- ‘When the going gets tough, the tough get going’ and it has usually worked very well for me.

Decisions kill choices

Once you decide to do something, you are faced with choices in how to go about doing it. If not handled well, then we can hit the first roadblock in getting things done soon after deciding to take on a task.

That which hinders your task is your task

That which hinders your task is your task’

This has been one of my favorite quotes but I am only starting to really accept what this means for me now. You are always going to find it hard to meet your goal (whatever that may be) if…

The hammer and the chair

Let’s say you have a hammer. And a good one at that. The best one on the market. You are kind of in love with it because it has great a back story. Your best friend knew how much you love a good hammer and got you a really fancy one with your initials engraved on it. It even came with…

How do you spend your attention?

Where you spend your attention is where you spend your life.

When something doesn’t work out the way you intended it to where does your attention go- do you notice whose fault that might have been or how you could fix it?