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Haters Rage-Subscribed My OnlyFans Because I Blogged About Female Supremacy
Haters Rage-Subscribed My OnlyFans Because I Blogged About Female Supremacy
I wrote a cute little blog about my fetish lifestyle and shared it on FemDom social media, I could never have imagined what would come…
Victoria Gray
Jun 20
Female Supremacy Isn’t Just A Kink: Women Are Superior
Female Supremacy Isn’t Just A Kink: Women Are Superior
Earlier this week I had a call on NiteFlirt from a young guy who seemed rather smitten with me right off the bat. At some point he referred…
Victoria Gray
Jun 12
Men’s Tears Just The Appetizer
Men’s Tears Just The Appetizer
Incels, I’m not sorry I laughed at you.
Victoria Gray
Apr 23
No, You Can’t SafeWord Out Of Laundry
No, You Can’t SafeWord Out Of Laundry
The Stupid Sh*t I Hear As A Dominatrix
Victoria Gray
May 7
How To Please or Serve a Domme
How To Please or Serve a Domme
“Mistress, please let me serve you!” means, what, exactly?
Victoria Gray
Nov 2, 2023
How To Meet A Domme
How To Meet A Domme
Spilling the tea no-one else will!
Victoria Gray
Sep 26, 2023
Why Domme’s Have A Birthday Month!?
Why Domme’s Have A Birthday Month!?
Online FemDom culture should be fun…
Victoria Gray
Sep 10, 2023
He Didn’t Surrender, He Submitted
He Didn’t Surrender, He Submitted
Submissive men in the wild ain’t that hard to spot.
Victoria Gray
Jun 21, 2023
The Adoration Of A Good Submissive
The Adoration Of A Good Submissive
Separating genuine submissive men from fantasists
Victoria Gray
Jan 18, 2023
BDSM Police Say Your Fantasy is a Thought Crime
BDSM Police Say Your Fantasy is a Thought Crime
When kinksters themselves police one anothers fetishes.
Victoria Gray
Jul 20, 2022
Dominating Tech Bros
Dominating Tech Bros
Hiding his kinky self is tough, being out about it would be impossible.
Victoria Gray
Jul 6, 2022
A Cuckold For Every Girl
A Cuckold For Every Girl
When compulsory monogamy is boring and unsexy.
Victoria Gray
Jun 24, 2022
Kinks So Well Hidden Even You Miss Them
Kinks So Well Hidden Even You Miss Them
When even the most self-aware people have a big kinky blind spot!
Victoria Gray
Apr 20, 2022
Separating the Dommes from the Dreamers
Separating the Dommes from the Dreamers
The Best Dommes Use Empathy Differently
Victoria Gray
Apr 13, 2022
Where’s the Dom in FinDom?
Where’s the Dom in FinDom?
“That’s not FinDom… WTF!?” Shouldn’t need to be said.
Victoria Gray
Apr 6, 2022
Male Chastity Devices Increasing Popularity & Why
Male Chastity Devices Increasing Popularity & Why
The male chastity kink is on the rise, but why do more men want to hand over the keys to their manhood to powerful women?
Victoria Gray
Mar 23, 2022
The Power Of Feminine Attention & The Men Addicted To It
The Power Of Feminine Attention & The Men Addicted To It
Men who tell you they’re not addicted to feminine attention are liars.
Victoria Gray
Feb 9, 2022
He gets Bi with a Little Help from My Friends
He gets Bi with a Little Help from My Friends
Making space for men to explore their bisexual fantasies.
Victoria Gray
Feb 2, 2022
If Dommes Were Honest
If Dommes Were Honest
BDSM is full of fantasy, some peoples fantasies are stupid tho.
Victoria Gray
Jan 26, 2022
Getting & Keeping The Hottest BDSM Dynamic
Getting & Keeping The Hottest BDSM Dynamic
Want to submit? Play? Do some wild, kinky fetish shit? I’ve got you.
Victoria Gray
Dec 1, 2021
Paying My Rent With Men’s Tears
Paying My Rent With Men’s Tears
Not quite the tears you expected, though.
Victoria Gray
Nov 10, 2021
Holding Space to Receive the Gift of Submission
Holding Space to Receive the Gift of Submission
Next level BDSM shit — for the devoted only! 😉
Victoria Gray
Aug 4, 2021
One Simple Thing That Will Change BDSM For You Forever
One Simple Thing That Will Change BDSM For You Forever
“Just Breathe” She said.
Victoria Gray
Jul 28, 2021
Sex Work Is Work, Not A Get Rich Quick Scheme
Sex Work Is Work, Not A Get Rich Quick Scheme
Being A Domme Isn’t Printing Money
Victoria Gray
Jul 21, 2021
One Thing That Will Bring You More (&Better) Kinky Fun!
One Thing That Will Bring You More (&Better) Kinky Fun!
This one question will change your (kinky) life
Victoria Gray
Jul 14, 2021
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