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On Nurturing Friendships Over Time And Distance

On Nurturing Friendships Over Time And Distance

There’s a certain feeling that my close friends give me: Serenity. Ease of mind. Peace. Days, weeks, maybe even months can go by and…
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I Just Found Out I’m Invincible

I Just Found Out I’m Invincible

“Why is it always so emotional for you? You know, it’s okay to care less.”
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My Experience With An IUD

My Experience With An IUD

I feel a huge sense of liberation as I make the appointment to get my IUD removed. It’s ironic because I felt the same way when I made the…
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On Rejection

On Rejection

Writing has always been my passion. I remember stumbling into my second-grade classroom the morning of career day, tightly gripping the…
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Grieving Past Selves

Grieving Past Selves

I have the 1975 on repeat. I tend to listen to artists, songs, really on repeat until the lyrics feel like breathing to me. “Love It If We…
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“Too” Nice: Not Naive, Not Weak, Only Decent

“Too” Nice: Not Naive, Not Weak, Only Decent

It occurs to me that, quite often, people tell me that I am “too nice.” I am really confused about what people mean by “too nice”. Not only…
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Dear White Feminists

Dear White Feminists

I am tired of being your token. If and when I’m invited to your table I am either ignored or stripped of my integrity. You demand the…
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Eight-Year-Old Me

Eight-Year-Old Me

Change has been a constant fear of mine throughout my whole life. Whenever I detect even an ounce of change coming my way, my anxiety gets…
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The Joys Of Cervix Examinations

The Joys Of Cervix Examinations

Medicinal science has come so far, remember when Lind figured out that citrus fruits prevents scurvy? Or when Lister was like “yo, we…
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Awaiting The Freedom Of Irish Women

Awaiting The Freedom Of Irish Women

My face presses against the windowpane as the plane wheels hit the tarmac. I peer out at my new home and find myself surprised that the sun…
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