The Height of Your Potential Is Predicted by the People Who Surround You

Maarten van Doorn
Personal Growth
4 min readOct 9, 2019

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Take a look at this Abraham Lincoln quote and think about it:

“Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax.”

What, you reckon, is the message here?

Whenever you set out to achieve something, it might come in handy to invest a lot in the tools you’ll be using to complete your quest.

Now, let’s say our goal is to have an awesome life.

Were we to apply Lincoln’s lesson to this goal, what would that amount to?

The answer might surprise you.

Perhaps even upset you.

Keep tabs on the life-philosophies to which you expose yourself

What instruments are available for living better and how can we ‘sharpen’ them?

The most important tool at our disposal for living better is other people.

The people we surround ourselves with are the biggest influence on our behavior, attitudes and results. Who you are around — what they’ve got you thinking, saying, doing and becoming — sets the course of your life.

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Maarten van Doorn
Personal Growth

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