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Mother Wounds
Mother Wounds
Mother is our first love, from her mother’s mother’s belly, Trauma breathed through generations long before our birth shapes our worth.
Darlene Lancer
Aug 10
Mental Chess
Mental Chess
Who sets the rules in your relationship? What happens when you change the rules…if you dare?
Darlene Lancer
Jul 28
The Cost of Love Lost
The Cost of Love Lost
One of the hardest things is falling in love and discovering it was never meant to be and you have to let go, yet stay open to love again.
Darlene Lancer
Dec 14, 2023
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Letting Go Isn’t Easy
Letting Go Isn’t Easy
Mostly, letting go refers to a person or thing we had or loved. But how do we let go of yearning for what we never had and unlived dreams?
Darlene Lancer
Dec 1, 2023
My Amazon Adventure Behind the Green Curtain
My Amazon Adventure Behind the Green Curtain
I climbed down from the single-engine plane and stepped onto the rich Amazon soil on the outskirts of Puerto Maldonado in southeast Peru…
Darlene Lancer
Nov 18, 2023
The Stages of Narcissistic Relationships
The Stages of Narcissistic Relationships
Narcissistic relationships go through a painful cycle that grows of narcissistic personality disorder. Spot the stages and what you can do.
Darlene Lancer
Nov 5, 2023
Soul Waters
Soul Waters
I thought the ocean too cold to swim. But dip my hand slowly in. Surprised to find the sun had warmed the Winter water.
Darlene Lancer
Sep 4, 2023
The Gibson Player
The Gibson Player
At 6:00 p.m. I greet Pete at my door. “I’m on time and keep my word,” he crows, We dine, recline, and stretch our feet across my coffee…
Darlene Lancer
Sep 3, 2023
Lessons Beyond the Body
Lessons Beyond the Body
When Kay in our meeting was dying of ALS, she taught us so much about the spirit and that we are more than our bodies.
Darlene Lancer
Sep 3, 2023
My Ship Comes Home — A Self-Love Journey
My Ship Comes Home — A Self-Love Journey
I’d been searching all my life, Never knowing why, Seeking answers without questions, Afraid to live, afraid to die.
Darlene Lancer
Sep 1, 2023
The Engagement Ring
The Engagement Ring
A solitaire danced above A swirl of twirling light, Radiating timeless love, Promised by my shining knight. Diamonds blazed in each…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 31, 2023
Desert Soul
Desert Soul
I’d been walking in the desert of my soul along the dry, uncertain bedrock of a dead stream — unaware readying a divorce and new career.
Darlene Lancer
Aug 30, 2023
The Last of the Vampires
The Last of the Vampires
I was certain that Trevor was my soul mate — fallen from heaven. He didn’t look like a vampire, quite the opposite, in fact.
Darlene Lancer
Aug 29, 2023
Surrender
Surrender
Surrender is nothing one can do. It’s an absence I can’t create. It’s what I must remove: All that I want, All that I understand, All that…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 28, 2023
The Monarch
The Monarch
On a windowsill a Monarch prays, Stoic and still. Motionless, near death, it seems. As cold winds beat its fragile wings. I coax its hairy…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 27, 2023
The 4th of July
The 4th of July
I dreamt I went fishing and drew a snake up from the depths. It wriggled on the ground, and The hook popped out its mouth As it whipped arou
Darlene Lancer
Aug 27, 2023
Familiar Safety
Familiar Safety
A neighbor’s cat liked to dally Along the far side of the alley. Unaware, I sped in his direction, And, though safely out of harm, He…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 26, 2023
War and Peace
War and Peace
I collapse upon a bench beneath the palms To watch a twilight surf. The wide horizon clears my weary eyes, And wet salt air subdues my city…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 25, 2023
Tomorrow
Tomorrow
Green buds coming up too slow, I thought, Will they grow? I don’t know, perhaps they’ll die.
Darlene Lancer
Aug 24, 2023
Canyons of My Mind
Canyons of My Mind
The canyons of my mind guard the waterways of life — Forever watching river rafts and passersby floating in their gaiety, I walk along the…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 23, 2023
Initiation On Point
Initiation On Point
I cover my toes with white lamb’s wool, And slip on pink satin toe shoes. At last my own! I wrap ‘round my ankles Pink satin ribbon…
Darlene Lancer
Aug 22, 2023
Parental Alienation
Parental Alienation
A story of Parental Alienation, when one parent turns children against the other in a divorce causes PTSD and serious mental health…
Darlene Lancer
Apr 1, 2023
The One
The One
Do you seek perfect love? Would you recognize it if it were right before you? Did you find it only to watch it fade, blow up, or disappear?
Darlene Lancer
Mar 16, 2023
Sunset by the Sea
Sunset by the Sea
Do you ever ask what drives you and your priorities? I wisely wondered at 17 — but, sadly was too young and unaware to learn from the…
Darlene Lancer
Feb 19, 2023
Caterpillar
Caterpillar
Transformation occurs through us, not as result of our will. Faith is needed to allow change to blossom, often into an unimaginable new form
Darlene Lancer
Jan 4, 2021
Waiting
Waiting
Waiting. Waiting for life to begin. Death does not wait.
Darlene Lancer
Dec 28, 2020
The Story My Shoes Tell
The Story My Shoes Tell
I’d been three years on crutches and unable to walk, not knowing if I ever would again. Sadly I looked at my dusty shoes. Each had a story.
Darlene Lancer
Dec 21, 2020
El Floridita — Where I Fell in Love
El Floridita — Where I Fell in Love
You and your partner move as one to music that teases, “Make love to me, later.” Energy flowing as long as the music lasts … at El…
Darlene Lancer
Dec 2, 2020
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