Ramadan 1445 AH — Day 17: Shaking Your Brother’s Hand
The believers are nothing else but brothers. So make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear Allâh, that you may receive mercy. — Qur’an 49[Al-Hujurat]:10
In a world often marked by fleeting interactions and digital communication, the Sunnah of shaking hands stands as a timeless tradition, embodying warmth, respect, and brotherhood. Rooted in the teachings of Islam and exemplified by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, this simple yet profound gesture carries deep significance in fostering connections and building bonds among individuals.
Abu Huraira relates, that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: “When two Muslims meet and give a handshake, they are forgiven their sins before they part with each other.” — Sunan Abu Dawūd
This Hadith underscores the spiritual merit inherent in the act of shaking hands. It symbolizes the forgiveness of sins and the renewal of bonds between believers. The Prophet ﷺ would initiate handshakes, demonstrating humility, kindness, and a genuine desire to connect with others. Here’s a description of how he ﷺ does it:
Anas Ibn Malik narrated: whenever the prophet ﷺ shook hands with another man, he would not remove his hand from his until the man would pull away first. — At-Tirmidhi
It is also recorded that whenever Abu Bakr and Umar met, they would embrace each other warmly, with a firm handshake. This gesture of brotherhood and mutual respect fortified their bond and unity in the cause of Islam. Uthman ibn Affan, known for his generosity and compassion, would often extend his figurative hand of generosity to the needy and oppressed. He would greet them with a handshake, offering solace and support in times of hardship.
In today’s fast-paced world, the Sunnah of shaking hands remains as relevant as ever, although some Muslims shy from it. In multicultural societies, it serves as a bridge between people of diverse backgrounds, fostering understanding and harmony. Moreover, in a time when social distancing has become the norm, a sincere handshake can convey warmth, sincerity, and emotional connection in a way that transcends physical barriers.
The Sunnah of shaking hands is more than a customary greeting; it is a profound expression of Islamic values and principles. As we strive to revive this practice following the footsteps of our righteous predecessors, let us embrace it wholeheartedly, recognizing its power to foster unity, strengthen bonds, and bring blessings into our lives and communities. Overall, it is a beautiful tradition that promotes respect, brotherhood, and goodwill among believers.
Lastly, let’s keep the handshakes between people of similar gender. You can only touch a woman who’s blood-related or connected via marriage. Allah’s Apostle ﷺ said:
On the authority of Ma’qil ibn Yassaar who said: the Messenger of Allaah ﷺ said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than that he should touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” – Tabarani
Action Points
- When next you see your brother in Islam, say the tasleem, with a warm smile and shake his hands.
- Have the intention that as long as you’re holding hands, your sins are forgiven by Allah.
- Do not hold a Muslim at heart, do not keep a grudge nor be suspicious of your brother.
That’s it for today, take action on this Daily Revival and if you missed yesterday’s episode, you can find it here. I ask Allah to make it easy for you and me. Amin!
Yaumul Arba’ 17th Ramadan 1445 AH // Wednesday 27th March 2024.
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