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Should I be worried about my partner’s friend who’s a girl?

Should I be worried about my partner’s friend who’s a girl?

Who he met on a dating app 2 months before we started dating
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Just 22 guilty pleasures I won’t give up on

Just 22 guilty pleasures I won’t give up on

And I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of them.
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People watching is my favourite hobby

People watching is my favourite hobby

Especially if they’re on holiday
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I’m a build a bear with her head stitched on backwards…

I’m a build a bear with her head stitched on backwards…

…who forgot her shoes and is missing an arm.
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I’d like to think I’m a nice person, but am I really?

I’d like to think I’m a nice person, but am I really?

#journalentry
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If you had one wish, what would you wish for?

If you had one wish, what would you wish for?

My own answer has been a house for a while. Owning my own house. Or maybe now that I thought about it a bit more writing this; I would wish…
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I had a panic attack once. I quit my job the day after.

I had a panic attack once. I quit my job the day after.

#journalentry
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How much poison can you take, before you die?

How much poison can you take, before you die?

Sometimes the best way to understand something is to look at it completely different. From a different perspective or through a lens, you…
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Apparently I am too emotional.

Apparently I am too emotional.

#journalentry
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I can’t prove the mental abuse, so I lost friends and family.

I can’t prove the mental abuse, so I lost friends and family.

I’m a very factual person, 90% of the time. Where I live is quite a touristy spot that attracts a lot of fitness influencers and what not…
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If you knew you weren’t going to make it, would you keep trying?

If you knew you weren’t going to make it, would you keep trying?

Or reverse: If you knew you were going to succeed, would you never think of quitting?
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