The Ace Space

Because I came up with some more in the middle of the night

Being on the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum while being cisgender and heterosexual can make you feel isolated from both straight and…

It’s not them, it’s me

Because people still get confused

Maybe this list will convince you?

Regardless of your gender identity and sexual orientation, chances are that you didn’t ascribe much to many traditional gender norms in…

When you come out anywhere on the rainbow, including the grayer side of the aspec, there’s a massive revelation then closure you must have…

I’m going to put this to you as simply as I can

You had this distinct feeling you weren’t like other people around you for the longest time, but weren’t yet aware you’re on the aromantic…

Because this demisexual doesn’t really know

Some demiromantics and greyromantics really want a long-term partner. But we can’t control our incredibly rare and arbitrary attraction…

A story on my frustration with identity expectations

I knew of the aromantic side of queerness by my late twenties. But at 37, I finally have a term for my proclivity and wonder why we don’t…

For some unfathomable reason, their new target is us demisexuals

My strategies for fostering a happy, healthy relationship

I have been welcomed with open arms but I feel I don’t fit properly

How learning about asexuality changed my life for the better

Apparently, I’m a teenager or trendy millennial woman now?

I’ve always viewed (pardon the pun) it differently

Nobody owes you their labels

How being this type of aspec is emotionally draining

I have two examples in my life, and I’m not certain about one of them

All my life people who know me (and some who don’t) have accused me of being too choosy