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Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Feb 25

Present tense — Zara pt. 5

I was about halfway through my “highlight reel” of experiences that were serving as a last gasp to see if Zara…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Feb 22

Breadcrumb trails— Zara pt. 4

I was standing on the shakiest of ground. Zara had walked out on my birthday after I tried to talk about…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Jan 10

Premature infatuation

My first tiptoes into dating had me feeling fairly good. I was enjoying a boost in confidence that I hadn’t experienced…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Nov 8, 2023

Paying lip service

Some women are understandably nervous about meeting men in person after talking with them online. I can’t say I blame them…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Oct 24, 2023

Rules of disengagement — Daniela pt. 2

Making Daniela laugh was my absolute favourite thing to do. She hated to admit I was funny…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Oct 16, 2023

My very first date

First dates are always a mix of fun and nervous energy. The anticipation, the awkwardness, the slowly building attraction…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Oct 6, 2023

The worst date I’ve ever been on

Sometimes when I’m early in my “dating mode,” and there’s a world of possibility open, I’ll set up…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Oct 4, 2023

Set for success: Daniela pt. 1

A ten-year-long relationship will define anybody. Mine was my first real relationship, the one where I…

Alan MacPherson in The Bar Is On The Floor

Oct 3, 2023

Opener sesame

I have always been a flirt. I’ve always liked joking around and trying to get a laugh. And it’s better when it’s with the person who…