Lessons on Manhood Part Three: To my Younger Son on His 21st Birthday
It’s now a family tradition.
A couple years ago, in an attempt to fill the void left by the loss of your dad, I wrote Lessons on Manhood I Learned From Your Father for your brother and you. The following year, your brother turned 21 and a I penned a letter detailing what he had taught me. Now that you have reached this milestone, I’m proud to to detail the exemplary example you present:
Make your words count: A few deliberate comments are more compelling than an extended tirade.
Keep watch: Discreet observation can be the best educator.
Provide a safe harbor: Be known for the one to turn to when times are stormy.
Fancy f-words: Faith, family, and friends form a firm foundation.
Be brave: A heart of gold inspires nerves of steel.
Stay in the loop: Being out of touch induces ignorant decisions.
Tinker: Working with your hands enriches your mind.
Don’t seek applause: Pride in a job well done is all the cheerleading you'll need.
Be a wolf in sheep’s clothing: Demonstrate your tenacity with quiet confidence.
