It’s fine when you’re shopping and trying to figure out the best bang for your buck, or which applicant to hire, but this method doesn’t work when there’s an issue. It only works where there’s a choice.
Humans are selfish creature. We intuitively and instinctively think about “I” as a default. If it’s anything that watching Netflix’s Indian Matchmaking taught me, is that the gift of thinking about “we” doesn’t come naturally. It takes time and it takes effort, and above all, it takes a certain maturity to reach that…