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Living With and Through Infidelity
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I Survived My Husband’s Affair, But Can I Survive This Election?
I Survived My Husband’s Affair, But Can I Survive This Election?
Forget trust issues — now I’m competing with poll numbers and political rants.
A. Kimber
Nov 5
Is Monogamy a Thing of the Past?
Is Monogamy a Thing of the Past?
Is the idea of staying with one partner becoming outdated?
A. Kimber
Nov 4
Who Cheats More—Men or Women? Unpacking the Data
Who Cheats More—Men or Women? Unpacking the Data
The surprising truth behind infidelity, backed by real numbers.
A. Kimber
Nov 3
Reclaiming Myself
Reclaiming Myself
The power of being broken
A. Kimber
Oct 27
The Weakest, Most Ridiculous Excuses Cheaters Have Given
The Weakest, Most Ridiculous Excuses Cheaters Have Given
You cheated… and that’s the best you could come up with?
A. Kimber
Oct 26
Can Cheating Ever Be ‘An Accident’?
Can Cheating Ever Be ‘An Accident’?
A slippery slope or a moment of thoughtless behavior?
A. Kimber
Oct 25
Oops, I Cheated: The Surprisingly Funny Side of Infidelity
Oops, I Cheated: The Surprisingly Funny Side of Infidelity
Sometimes, you just have to laugh at life’s ridiculous twists.
A. Kimber
Oct 24
Rebuilding After Betrayal: Getting Back to Normal After My Husband’s Affair
Rebuilding After Betrayal: Getting Back to Normal After My Husband’s Affair
Healing is a journey, not a destination.
A. Kimber
Oct 23
When Did You Know Your Marriage Was Over?
When Did You Know Your Marriage Was Over?
Asking for a friend, but mostly for myself
A. Kimber
Oct 22
My Husband Had an Emotional Affair
My Husband Had an Emotional Affair
He hid it for six months
A. Kimber
Oct 21
Staying Despite the Anger: Living with the Man Who Cheated
Staying Despite the Anger: Living with the Man Who Cheated
When love and frustration live side by side
A. Kimber
Oct 20
Infidelity Triggers Personal Growth
Infidelity Triggers Personal Growth
Sometimes, betrayal forces us to grow in unexpected ways.
A. Kimber
Oct 20
Cheating as a Catalyst for Self-Discovery
Cheating as a Catalyst for Self-Discovery
Is Betrayal Ever Beneficial?
A. Kimber
Oct 18
Cheaters Weigh In: Why Did They Do It?
Cheaters Weigh In: Why Did They Do It?
Behind every affair, there’s a story
A. Kimber
Oct 17
Threads of Goodbye
Threads of Goodbye
Holding on while knowing it’s time to let go
A. Kimber
Oct 16
Invisible Divorce: Is Your Marriage Over Without You Even Knowing?
Invisible Divorce: Is Your Marriage Over Without You Even Knowing?
It’s over, but no one’s calling it quits
A. Kimber
Oct 15
Why Middle-Aged Couples Cheat
Why Middle-Aged Couples Cheat
Midlife crisis, anyone?
A. Kimber
Oct 11
Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Is Worse?
Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Is Worse?
What hurts more: a broken heart or a broken trust?
A. Kimber
Oct 10
Spouse or Affair Partner? Who's to Blame
Spouse or Affair Partner? Who's to Blame
Blame isn’t a clear-cut issue when it comes to affairs
A. Kimber
Oct 7
Babbling of the Betrayed: Does Anything Good Come from an Affair?
Babbling of the Betrayed: Does Anything Good Come from an Affair?
Is it all bad?
A. Kimber
Oct 6
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