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Living With and Through Infidelity
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During Recovery From Abuse, Spend Some Time Finding The Black Lining In Every Cloud
During Recovery From Abuse, Spend Some Time Finding The Black Lining In Every Cloud
You already wasted your time searching for the silver ones.
Cecilia Presley
Aug 25
Are Love Affairs Mini Cults?
Are Love Affairs Mini Cults?
The more I research them, the more I’m convinced they are the same thing
Cecilia Presley
Aug 10
You’re Only An Accidental Mistress Until You Find Out
You’re Only An Accidental Mistress Until You Find Out
If you choose to stay after that, you’re a regular mistress.
Cecilia Presley
Jul 8
How Do You Know When You Are Self-Gaslighting In Your Relationship?
How Do You Know When You Are Self-Gaslighting In Your Relationship?
Are things truly the way you are thinking of them?
Cecilia Presley
Jun 15
Cheating Husband? Now What?
Cheating Husband? Now What?
The big question I wish I had been asked when deciding whether to stay or leave.
Cecilia Presley
May 9
What do I do on the first D-day anniversary?
What do I do on the first D-day anniversary?
Photo by Milin John on Unsplash
Whisper of the Wind
May 4
Why I should stop the rage with the AP
Why I should stop the rage with the AP
Whisper of the Wind
Apr 3
Why I should not be depressed
Why I should not be depressed
Photo by Ingmar H on Unsplash
Whisper of the Wind
Apr 2
How getting rid of sexual desire is the right dose to healing
How getting rid of sexual desire is the right dose to healing
Photo by Ryoji Iwata on Unsplash
Whisper of the Wind
Mar 21
Affair Recovery: Fast Forgiveness is False Forgiveness
Affair Recovery: Fast Forgiveness is False Forgiveness
If it’s fast, it won’t last.
Cecilia Presley
Mar 1
How revenge sex helps affair recovery
How revenge sex helps affair recovery
Whisper of the Wind
Feb 25
Babbling of the Betrayed: Eye for an Eye
Babbling of the Betrayed: Eye for an Eye
Is a dose of his own medicine the right choice?
Ana Kimber
Feb 18
Resources that help me overcome heartbreak
Resources that help me overcome heartbreak
Whisper of the Wind
Feb 18
Let’s Talk Infidelity — Complete Oblivion or Painful Truth?
Let’s Talk Infidelity — Complete Oblivion or Painful Truth?
Which would you choose?
Ana Kimber
Feb 15
Unanswerable Questions and Irrational Thoughts
Unanswerable Questions and Irrational Thoughts
Considering revenge after infidelity
Ana Kimber
Nov 3, 2023
We Are Looking For Writers
We Are Looking For Writers
Tell your infidelity story
Ana Kimber
Sep 24, 2023
When Compartmentilism Stops Working
When Compartmentilism Stops Working
Childhood coping mechanisms don’t always work on adult problems
Ana Kimber
Sep 23, 2023
Babblings of the Betrayed: Sometimes I Forget He Cheated
Babblings of the Betrayed: Sometimes I Forget He Cheated
A year and a half later
Ana Kimber
Sep 5, 2023
Meeting of the Cheating Husbands
Meeting of the Cheating Husbands
What happens when a cheater meets another cheater?
Ana Kimber
Sep 3, 2023
Time to Reflect: Poetry Recap
Time to Reflect: Poetry Recap
A few of my favorite poetry pieces about infidelity
Ana Kimber
Sep 2, 2023
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