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Living With and Through Infidelity
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Surviving Infidelity: Six Stories of Healing, Renewal, and Regret
Surviving Infidelity: Six Stories of Healing, Renewal, and Regret
Looking back on their infidelity journey
A. Kimber
Sep 28
Weak Men Create Masculine Women: Understanding Gender Dynamics in Modern Relationships
Weak Men Create Masculine Women: Understanding Gender Dynamics in Modern Relationships
The roles we play and how they affect our relationships
A. Kimber
Sep 25
Infidelity versus Adultery — Is there a difference?
Infidelity versus Adultery — Is there a difference?
Everything you need to know
A. Kimber
Sep 24
Two Years After Infidelity: Finding a Way Back to Me
Two Years After Infidelity: Finding a Way Back to Me
It’s been a long journey
A. Kimber
Sep 23
Is He Cheating? 10 Questions to Answer Honestly
Is He Cheating? 10 Questions to Answer Honestly
Spotting the signs isn’t always easy
A. Kimber
Sep 22
Unraveled in Silence
Unraveled in Silence
When love fades, the quiet tells the story
A. Kimber
Sep 21
White Knight Syndrome — Why Do Men Cheat Down?
White Knight Syndrome — Why Do Men Cheat Down?
Do they get their fairy tale ending?
A. Kimber
Sep 20
Babbling of the Betrayed: The Power of Silence
Babbling of the Betrayed: The Power of Silence
Finding Peace in the Quiet After Infidelity
A. Kimber
Sep 19
10 Subtle Signs Your Partner May Be Cheating (And How to Trust Your Gut)
10 Subtle Signs Your Partner May Be Cheating (And How to Trust Your Gut)
Have you experienced any of these signs?
A. Kimber
Sep 18
Babbling of the Betrayed: Infidelity Is Not Your Fault
Babbling of the Betrayed: Infidelity Is Not Your Fault
It’s not you, it’s them
A. Kimber
Sep 15
Offerings
Offerings
A constitution of broken flowers holds my heart
Ezekanne Paschal-Regal
Sep 8
Have I Regained What I Lost to Infidelity?
Have I Regained What I Lost to Infidelity?
Two years later — What has changed?
A. Kimber
Sep 8
The Thing My Husband Said To Me While Dating That Solidified My Trust In Him
The Thing My Husband Said To Me While Dating That Solidified My Trust In Him
He said it without hesitation. This is why it changed me for the better.
Cecilia Presley
Sep 8
During Recovery From Abuse, Spend Some Time Finding The Black Lining In Every Cloud
During Recovery From Abuse, Spend Some Time Finding The Black Lining In Every Cloud
You already wasted your time searching for the silver ones.
Cecilia Presley
Aug 25
Are Love Affairs Mini Cults?
Are Love Affairs Mini Cults?
The more I research them, the more I’m convinced they are the same thing
Cecilia Presley
Aug 10
You’re Only An Accidental Mistress Until You Find Out
You’re Only An Accidental Mistress Until You Find Out
If you choose to stay after that, you’re a regular mistress.
Cecilia Presley
Jul 8
How Do You Know When You Are Self-Gaslighting In Your Relationship?
How Do You Know When You Are Self-Gaslighting In Your Relationship?
Are things truly the way you are thinking of them?
Cecilia Presley
Jun 15
Cheating Husband? Now What?
Cheating Husband? Now What?
The big question I wish I had been asked when deciding whether to stay or leave.
Cecilia Presley
May 9
What do I do on the first D-day anniversary?
What do I do on the first D-day anniversary?
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Whisper of the Wind
May 4
Why I should stop the rage with the AP
Why I should stop the rage with the AP
Whisper of the Wind
Apr 3
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