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How To Be a Cool Girl Affair Partner

How To Be a Cool Girl Affair Partner

And not one of those bitches…
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MonalisaSmiled
OPSEC Tips & Tricks From a Seasoned Adulterer

OPSEC Tips & Tricks From a Seasoned Adulterer

When being shady is a life skill.
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MonalisaSmiled
’Tis the Season of Your Ass Getting Caught

’Tis the Season of Your Ass Getting Caught

Be extra cautious around the holidays
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MonalisaSmiled
Five Surprise Moves Guaranteed to Please…

Five Surprise Moves Guaranteed to Please…

It’s time to give her some Christmas cheer!
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Reef Baby
Does Your Affair Partner Have Another Affair Partner?

Does Your Affair Partner Have Another Affair Partner?

When you have to ask…you know the answer.
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MonalisaSmiled
Knee Jerks and Bad Reactions in Adultery

Knee Jerks and Bad Reactions in Adultery

Real Feelings Are Messy
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Clara
Her Husband Cheated… Now It’s Her Turn

Her Husband Cheated… Now It’s Her Turn

Aisha’s relationship isn’t going well… perhaps what she needs is someone new…
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Heather Kinnane
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater…

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater…

What if your affair partner is cheating on you?
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MonalisaSmiled
The Secret to Finding a Lover — Men’s Edition

The Secret to Finding a Lover — Men’s Edition

A guide on how to be fuckable.
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MonalisaSmiled
What Are Your Top 10 Affair Requirements?

What Are Your Top 10 Affair Requirements?

What do you want in a lover?
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MonalisaSmiled
Doing The “Walk of Shame” Past the Hotel Desk

Doing The “Walk of Shame” Past the Hotel Desk

Do hotel employees care that you are cheating?
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MonalisaSmiled
How and Where Do I Find an AP?

How and Where Do I Find an AP?

Another man laments on r/adultery…
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MonalisaSmiled
When Lying about My Affair Isn’t a Lie

When Lying about My Affair Isn’t a Lie

Protecting Others is a Good Thing
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Clara
The Search for AP #3

The Search for AP #3

An adultery choose-your-own-adventure story.
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MonalisaSmiled
A Cactus Represented My Affair

A Cactus Represented My Affair

When a plant is a metaphor for your relationship
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Marie D. Rénault
Confessions — I Had A Rather Exciting Flight.

Confessions — I Had A Rather Exciting Flight.

It was only a 2 hour flight, how much trouble could I get into?
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Mona Rivers
The Best Worst F4M Personal Ad

The Best Worst F4M Personal Ad

When a woman is looking for a trailer park man to date.
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MonalisaSmiled
Naked Baking: A True Test of an Affair Partner

Naked Baking: A True Test of an Affair Partner

How well do you know yours?
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Rhobeau
The Perfect Affair Arrangement

The Perfect Affair Arrangement

What type of hookup is right for you?
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MonalisaSmiled
The Do’s and Don’ts of Writing a Winning Profile on Ashley Madison

The Do’s and Don’ts of Writing a Winning Profile on Ashley Madison

I’m your adultery fairy Godmother
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MonalisaSmiled
Why I Reply on Ashley Madison When I’m Not Looking

Why I Reply on Ashley Madison When I’m Not Looking

This blog post was adapted from Episode 2433 — Why I Reply on Ashley Madison When I’m Not Looking — of The Teresa Pod.
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Teresa J Conway 🧚🏻‍♀️
Does Your Affair or Relationship Exist Without a Phone?

Does Your Affair or Relationship Exist Without a Phone?

When your relationship doesn’t exist without a phone
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Marie D. Rénault
Under An Adulterer’s Moon

Under An Adulterer’s Moon

I see you
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Clara
How To Be the Single “Other Woman”

How To Be the Single “Other Woman”

A step-by-step guide for being in a relationship with a married man
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MonalisaSmiled
Get Yourself a Lover Like This

Get Yourself a Lover Like This

What to write to be an excellent affair partner
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MonalisaSmiled
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