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Prostitutes’ Websites: too long; didn’t read
Prostitutes’ Websites: too long; didn’t read
Why do sex workers reject your booking requests and not reply nicely to your emails? Is this your question: “I didn’t read your profile…
Deb Hands
Sep 11, 2024
End Demand for Prostitution and Save Women — Really?
End Demand for Prostitution and Save Women — Really?
Entrepreneurs create demand for services through marketing. Is sex work different?
Deb Hands
Jul 2, 2024
The Surprising World of Sex Work
The Surprising World of Sex Work
Whatever the client brings to the meeting we professionals deal with it
Deb Hands
Jun 26, 2024
Sex with Virgins: The pro and cons
Sex with Virgins: The pro and cons
Untouched or experienced, which is best?
Deb Hands
Jun 10, 2024
Orgasms After Prostate Surgery
Orgasms After Prostate Surgery
Many of my clients have had prostate surgery and I can tell you about their orgasms and sex life
Deb Hands
May 14, 2024
Do Sex Workers Offer Discounts?
Do Sex Workers Offer Discounts?
Most Don’t. Ask for discount at your peril. Some do, so accept it if she offers.
Deb Hands
May 10, 2024
Submit Your Story
Submit Your Story
Do you have thoughts or experiences to share on SEX WORK?
Deb Hands
May 8, 2024
Against Routine Circumcision
Against Routine Circumcision
I wouldn’t circumcise my sons. Let me tell you why handling thousands of erections has convinced me non-medical circumcision is wrong.
Deb Hands
May 7, 2024
Circumcision & Foreskin & What Sex Workers Want You to Know
Circumcision & Foreskin & What Sex Workers Want You to Know
We handle a lot of erections. We talk about them among ourselves, and there are some things we wish our clients knew about, such health and…
Deb Hands
Apr 26, 2024
What is a Brothel
What is a Brothel
A series on brothels by a woman who has worked in several
Deb Hands
Mar 29, 2024
Appointments at Short Notice
Appointments at Short Notice
Client expectations versus reality
Deb Hands
Mar 26, 2024
Sex Work & Politics
Sex Work & Politics
Election year makes it timely to talk about the law & sex work in 2024
Deb Hands
Mar 7, 2024
Sex Work and Cigarette Smoke
Sex Work and Cigarette Smoke
About clients who smoke and stink
Deb Hands
Feb 28, 2024
Writing About Sex Work
Writing About Sex Work
The best writers I’ve found on medium who write about Sex Work — here’s a list of top recommendations
Deb Hands
Feb 22, 2024
Valentines Soap Box
Valentines Soap Box
It’s okay to be single.
Deb Hands
Feb 7, 2024
The Challenges of Running a Cash-Based Business in the UK
The Challenges of Running a Cash-Based Business in the UK
I only take cash in order to keep my business admin simple. But simple doesn’t mean easy. Banking is a problem.
Deb Hands
Oct 10, 2023
Patriarchy and the Reason WoMen Don’t Pay Prostitutes for Sex
Patriarchy and the Reason WoMen Don’t Pay Prostitutes for Sex
I used to think 99% of punters are men because they have more spare money than women but I have a new theory
Deb Hands
Sep 6, 2023
The Business Side: What does it take to be a full service sex worker?
The Business Side: What does it take to be a full service sex worker?
Age and appearance are irrelevant to a career as a sex worker but there are other attributes that are essential.
Deb Hands
Aug 30, 2023
What do Think About While You Do Your Job?
What do Think About While You Do Your Job?
A punter asked me “How does this make you feel?” as we neared the climactic happy ending. What was my answer?
Deb Hands
Aug 29, 2023
Early is Not on Time: Clients Who Arrive Super Early to Appointments
Early is Not on Time: Clients Who Arrive Super Early to Appointments
And what I know about guys who trawl the internet looking at sex workers late at night
Deb Hands
Aug 27, 2023
What is a Pimp?
What is a Pimp?
Is it a exploitative trafficker, a business manager, or an admin assistent?
Deb Hands
Jul 31, 2023
What I found out about Erectile Dysfunction through Sex Work
What I found out about Erectile Dysfunction through Sex Work
If you don’t use it you might lose it.
Deb Hands
Jul 5, 2023
End Demand And End Prostitution in Europe
End Demand And End Prostitution in Europe
Europe took a step in the wrong direction this week when the so-called committee on Women’s Rights and Gender Equality (FEMM) adopted a…
Deb Hands
Jun 28, 2023
Clients Caught Out by My Automated Online Booking System
Clients Caught Out by My Automated Online Booking System
I have a super simple and very convenient automated online booking system, we’ve all used them. The client can book themselves in to my…
Deb Hands
Jun 23, 2023
Weird Private Messages that MEN Send to Sex Workers
Weird Private Messages that MEN Send to Sex Workers
They aren’t what you’d expect and they are rarely dick pics
Deb Hands
Jun 17, 2023
How Much Do Prostitutes Earn?
How Much Do Prostitutes Earn?
This article looks specifically at payments to those who have hands-on contact with clients and not the broader range of sex works, which…
Deb Hands
Jun 9, 2023
Trafficking & Sex Work in the UK
Trafficking & Sex Work in the UK
Does trafficking exist in countries where sex work is legal and if so why?
Deb Hands
Jun 7, 2023
Why Would A Woman Choose to do Sex Work?
Why Would A Woman Choose to do Sex Work?
It’s a myth that all women seek an “escape” from prostitution and would rather do anything else. Some women CHOOSE to do sex work. I’m in…
Deb Hands
Jun 4, 2023
Have You Ever Paid For Sex?
Have You Ever Paid For Sex?
Would you admit to paying for sex?
Deb Hands
May 30, 2023
The Not So Secretive Clients of Sex Workers
The Not So Secretive Clients of Sex Workers
How Much Do You Know About Your Clients?
Deb Hands
Apr 21, 2023
What is a Sensual Massage?
What is a Sensual Massage?
How is it different from other massages? Is it sexual? Is it a hand job?
Deb Hands
Apr 7, 2023
What Kind of a Person Pays for Sex?
What Kind of a Person Pays for Sex?
It’s overwhelmingly men, but women do turn up as well. Couples also book sex workers to join them for threesomes or moresomes. And it’s all…
Deb Hands
Apr 1, 2023
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