I sometimes think about what the love of my life will be like. I never go anywhere where I might meet this overly-romanticized person — he’s entirely fictional. But in my head, the only place where this guy exists, he’s exceptional.
Last year, I shared a story about my Andalusian and Atlantic Creole ancestors. I explored these families in a longform piece, where I sketched out some of the lingering influences of having ancestors from these regions. Yet I neglected to mention one of the most important touchstones of any culture: food. This essay…
Granddad down in a mine,
me down in a cave —
both of us going deeper into Kentucky
a portrait of my distant (but beloved) Atlantic Creole and Andalusian ancestors
My granddad Bill worked in the forests, in the mines, in construction.
He hauled logs down the Ohio River. He helped build canals in Florida. When the family lived in the Keys, he built my father a treehouse overlooking the Gulf.
My great-grandfather — my dad’s dad’s dad — saw himself as a cowboy. He was from Kentucky, but this wasn’t what caused his affinity for the wrangler lifestyle. He lived along the far western edge of Texas for a few years, just an hour away from New Mexico. He did a bit of this and bit of that. But the state…