PinnedBernard MichaelsThe Day I Learned that I Was in an Abusive MarriageI am forever indebted to an emergency room nurse at a hospital. She saved my life.Jan 285Jan 285
Bernard MichaelsIt’s No Fun Living a Life That’s a LieThe priest said, “It is no fun living a life that’s a lie.” Having been gaslighted, I finally realize how true that statement is.May 27May 27
Bernard MichaelsMore Closeness, More HealingA trip together, a private location, and true physical and emotional intimacy reveal new experiences and strengthen my healing after abuse.May 25May 25
Bernard MichaelsTrauma Doesn’t Want Me Healing and Messing with ItSunday was perfect. Then, in the middle of the night, trauma comes raging back to remind me that it thinks it thinks it’s in charge of me.May 53May 53
Bernard MichaelsListening to Rain Alone and HealingHealing happens when it happens. Even alone, in a dark apartment. At 4 in the morning. When the rain won’t stop. Maybe it most happens…Apr 282Apr 282
Bernard MichaelsThe Old Mattress, the Random Meeting, My New Apartment, and the Healing AheadThe mattress.Apr 233Apr 233
Bernard MichaelsIs Healing Really a “Thing” After a Narcissistic Relationship?My mother asked, “What are you talking about with all this healing?” Would my need for healing make more sense if I were physically…Apr 33Apr 33
Bernard MichaelsSeven Admissions While Ending a Narcissistic RelationshipIt’s time for several admissions about revelations, healing, hope, and a future after narcissistic abuse.Mar 22Mar 22
Bernard MichaelsYour description of trying to protect yourself and not hurt your husband sounds so familiar.Mar 141Mar 141
Bernard MichaelsThe Healing Ahead after Decades with a NarcissistAfter living with a narcissist, I don’t even know what I like and don’t like. Healing is going to require figuring out what I care about.Mar 31Mar 31