PinnedAlice K. BlackinThe ViragoWhat I Learned from Opening My Marriage with My Partner of 11 YearsBefore I became a single woman dating married men, I was a married woman dating single men·10 min read·Mar 5, 2024--30--30
PinnedAlice K. BlackinThe ViragoWhat I Learned from the French About Extramarital AffairsThey were supposedly in “open marriages,” but the truth was more complicated·5 min read·Feb 9, 2024--96--96
Alice K. BlackinThe ViragoMarriage Is a Made-Up Game and We Keep Changing the RulesOpen marriages are no less “real” than monogamous ones and that’s good for everybody·5 min read·Mar 18, 2024--32--32
Alice K. BlackinILLUMINATIONHow I Got a French Visa as a Remote U.S. Worker (Part 2)Here are the documents you will need to get this visa·8 min read·Mar 11, 2024----
Alice K. BlackinILLUMINATIONHow I Got a French Visa as a Remote U.S. Worker (Part 1)Here’s what I did, step-by-step, with screenshots·12 min read·Mar 1, 2024--2--2
Alice K. BlackinThe ViragoThe 2 Problems with Polyamory We Don’t Like to Talk AboutThese two issues rest in the bedrock of all polyamorous relationships, but too often they get swept under the rug·6 min read·Feb 25, 2024--22--22
Alice K. BlackinModern WomenHow to Identify if Your Relationship Is Emotionally AbusiveEmotional abuse is not always obvious — here’s the unexpected method that shed light on my own situation·6 min read·Feb 22, 2024--14--14
Alice K. BlackinWord Garden5 Common Reasons Why Women Say “No” to a Second DateSome of them you can’t influence — but some you can·5 min read·Feb 16, 2024--8--8
Alice K. BlackinShort. Sweet. Valuable.Two Weird Bumble Hacks to Actually Get Better MatchesAnd no, you don’t need to have premium!·2 min read·Feb 16, 2024--1--1
Alice K. BlackinThe Virago3 Reasons Why the Married Men I Dated Sought Out Extramarital SexOnly one of their reasons was one I’d expected·7 min read·Feb 14, 2024--11--11