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Why Childless Cat Ladies Aren’t Good for the Patriarchy
Why Childless Cat Ladies Aren’t Good for the Patriarchy
The truth about cats, dogs, and kids
AshBunny
Aug 28
How Would I Ever Trust Anyone Again After What I’d Been Through?
How Would I Ever Trust Anyone Again After What I’d Been Through?
The answer surprised me
Suzanna Quintana
Aug 24
The Rise of Women in a Fading Patriarchy
The Rise of Women in a Fading Patriarchy
How empathy and strength are redefining power dynamics
Carin M. LaCount, O.D.
Aug 24
How I’m Healing From Human Giver Syndrome
How I’m Healing From Human Giver Syndrome
Women are socialized to serve others, and breaking out isn’t easy
Maria Cassano
Aug 23
We Told Our Children We Can’t Handle It Anymore
We Told Our Children We Can’t Handle It Anymore
We are splitting up
Evolving Together
Aug 22
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My Ex-husband Treats His New Wife Differently
My Ex-husband Treats His New Wife Differently
It makes my friends crazy, but I know exactly what drives him
Colleen Sheehy Orme
Aug 21
Why I Love Arguing with My Partner
Why I Love Arguing with My Partner
The power of healthy fights
Oye Yvey
Aug 21
To the Men Who Are Assholes in My Comment Section — What’s Your Goal?
To the Men Who Are Assholes in My Comment Section — What’s Your Goal?
Having a dick doesn’t entitle you to be one
Suzanna Quintana
Aug 20
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Leaning Into Our Pain Is the Only Way to Escape It
Leaning Into Our Pain Is the Only Way to Escape It
It seems counterintuitive, but trust me — it works
Maria Cassano
Aug 19
Why The Tradwife Movement Was Bound to Backfire Horrifically
Why The Tradwife Movement Was Bound to Backfire Horrifically
You can't sell a fairytale forever, sweetie
Ossiana Tepfenhart
Aug 18
Mercury Retrograde Is Supposed to Bring Me a Past Love
Mercury Retrograde Is Supposed to Bring Me a Past Love
I laughed at my Astrology friends until this happened
Colleen Sheehy Orme
Aug 17
Roe’s Attorney Foresaw the End of Reproductive Freedom
Roe’s Attorney Foresaw the End of Reproductive Freedom
Sarah Weddington warned us. We didn’t listen.
Daughter of a Broken Mind
Aug 16
Are You in Love With a Bully?
Are You in Love With a Bully?
My childhood bullies paled in comparison to the one I loved
Nicole Lee
Aug 14
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