PinnedOluchi 🦋Seriously, Somebody Please Tell Me Why Women of a Certain Age Are Getting MarriedWhen the return on their hefty investment promises to be so painfully low10h ago110h ago1
PinnedOluchi 🦋inThe Straight ShotWill Black Men Ever Forgive Black Women For Doing ThisWhy are Black men so critical of and cruel to Black women? A well-dressed stranger helped me understand what’s really going on with Black…May 1578May 1578
PinnedOluchi 🦋Why Black Men Will F*ck You Over But Expect You to Keep Doing Right By HimIf a man plays with or fumbles your heart, don’t ask him why he does it. Ask yourself why you let him.Jul 1229Jul 1229
PinnedOluchi 🦋Why Black Men Hate How Black Women LookSadly, it serves their agendasAug 1353Aug 1353
PinnedOluchi 🦋7 Obvious Yet Overlooked Signs That a Man is Into YouWhat I’ve learned from a few good men — and a lot of bad onesJul 258Jul 258
Oluchi 🦋Uncomfortable Truths Black Women Find Hard to FaceWill the Strong Black Woman ever retire?Sep 11Sep 11
Oluchi 🦋Why It’s So F*cking Hard to Love a Man: A Case StudyIs there any wonder that there’s an epidemic of loneliness among menAug 207Aug 207
Oluchi 🦋The Disturbing Reason Why White Men Expect to Get Away With Murdering Their WivesBlack men kill their intimate partners, too. They, however, don’t have the audacity and gall that white male privilege affords white menAug 196Aug 196
Oluchi 🦋Write Like a MonkWriting is spiritual. See yourself as a channel, let yourself be usedAug 146Aug 146
Oluchi 🦋inModern WomenWomen Who Know This One Profound Truth about Beauty and Success Thrive in Life“If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.” — Audre LordeAug 126Aug 126