kounselling comKeeping the pages together and healingI am a great fan of writing it down. My understanding of that little story that troubles me, nags at me changes once I write it down — I…Jul 10Jul 10
kounselling comAccepting other people just as they are — why would we do that?When our family and friends don’t treat us right and we would like them to change their ways about us, and thus have better, pleasanter…Jul 1Jul 1
kounselling comAffirming contact with another — the other package of trauma injuryThe need for meaningful, self validating contact is there from the beginning of life. When life is there — this is there too, alongside it…Jun 24Jun 24
kounselling comMy relationship with Melanie Klein — from ‘envy’ to ‘gratitude’… a brief note about it:Jun 6Jun 6
kounselling comCan trauma work help us with our physical health issues?“It is hereditary in my family to have heart troubles (high cholesterol levels). Even as a teenager I seem to have high blood pressure…Jun 1Jun 1
kounselling comWhy do they want to be told off? The abusers, that is?Have you noticed how sometimes the ‘abusers’ actually like for us to criticise them — for the ‘fresh’ thing that they have done in a long…May 27May 27
kounselling comdream — what could it mean? Blasting sun and two-sided earrings…I found this in my notes from about eight years ago and am not revealing whose dream this may be, except it’s a female.May 24May 24
kounselling comNever too happy for too longWhat is the point of having “use of many houses” — i.e. wealth if we lose ourselves? If we are not in any of them, when we are staying…Mar 20Mar 20
kounselling comThe inner critic, the criticiser, the unfriendly voice in ourselves — and how best to handle…If you have noticed there is one in yourself? And if so, have you also noticed how this voice varies in its loudness… and sometimes…Mar 8Mar 8
kounselling com“I feel”, or “I think” — which one, may I ask, do you prefer to use? How about ‘I experience’…?In the English Language ‘I feel’ is used where in many other languages — ‘I think’ would be ….Jan 25Jan 25