kounselling comI agree with this.When they want someone else to provide this for them, it soon becomes overwhelming, draining to the other person, thus undesirable.6h ago6h ago
kounselling comthat some else's problems are our responsibility can be so debilitating - and it is usually the…What we can do is ask - what then are their problems...?6h ago6h ago
kounselling comby the time i read this bit that I highlighted - at the end of your story, I forgot your name (but…7h ago7h ago
kounselling comit's interesting that you mention it all starts with little things and how we typically tend to let…4d ago4d ago
kounselling comthe first step is to become aware where we are victims of such developmental distortions...4d ago4d ago
kounselling cominKnow Thyself, Heal ThyselfUnderstanding the Balance of Give and TakeOur own life energy flows best when there is a good sense of an equal give and take. The energy in our relationships also flows best when…Jul 201Jul 201
kounselling comKeeping the pages together and healingI am a great fan of writing it down. My understanding of that little story that troubles me, nags at me changes once I write it down — I…Jul 10Jul 10
kounselling comAccepting other people just as they are — why would we do that?When our family and friends don’t treat us right and we would like them to change their ways about us, and thus have better, pleasanter…Jul 1Jul 1
kounselling comAffirming contact with another — the other package of trauma injuryThe need for meaningful, self validating contact is there from the beginning of life. When life is there — this is there too, alongside it…Jun 24Jun 24
kounselling comMy relationship with Melanie Klein — from ‘envy’ to ‘gratitude’… a brief note about it:Jun 6Jun 6