Thoughtful FetishistHow Individualism Affects Our Views of Sexual ViolenceWith Harvey Weinstein’s recent verdict, I am reminded of how bad systemic sexism is in our country when it comes to how we talk about and…Mar 17, 2020Mar 17, 2020
Thoughtful FetishistThe Men I’ve Tied Up: PhilI haven’t tied up many guys, but I find the stories of how I’ve managed to subdue men in real life worth sharing. For some of these guys…Oct 28, 2019Oct 28, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistThe Powerful Role of Hand Gags in Male BondageWhen I was growing up, a scene from the 1990 IT miniseries always intrigued me. It was when “The Loser’s Club” banded together to face…Jul 6, 20191Jul 6, 20191
Thoughtful FetishistDressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better Captives…Abduction as Romance for Women vs. Punishment for Being Desirable for MenApr 8, 2019Apr 8, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistDressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better CaptivesTo recap some aspects of my lengthy and rambly context section, visuals and aesthetics can convey a lot about a character and a situation…Apr 3, 2019Apr 3, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistThe Men I’ve Tied Up: CarlI haven’t tied up many guys, but I find the stories of how I’ve managed to subdue men in real life worth sharing. For some of these guys…Mar 16, 2019Mar 16, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistWhat is a bear if he isn’t stereotypically rugged or masculine?When I still lived at my mom’s, she would typically make Valentine’s Day about my siblings and I since she has been single for significant…Feb 16, 20192Feb 16, 20192
Thoughtful FetishistWhy I Write About BondageTo preface this post, I want note that I bring up some personal things. I say this because I don’t want readers to check out from my…Feb 5, 2019Feb 5, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistSticks and Stones may Break my Bones, But Context for Kidnappings Excites Me: An Explanation of Why…Being in the Way and Getting Taken Out of CommissionJan 28, 2019Jan 28, 2019
Thoughtful FetishistI am Reluctantly HisMy body jiggled and bounced with every bump in the road. I rested my head awkwardly on the backseat of a car, trying to let the hum of the…Jan 17, 2019Jan 17, 2019