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How Individualism Affects Our Views of Sexual Violence

With Harvey Weinstein’s recent verdict, I am reminded of how bad systemic sexism is in our country when it comes to how we talk about and…

Mar 17, 2020

How Individualism Affects Our Views of Sexual Violence

Mar 17, 2020

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The Men I’ve Tied Up: Phil

I haven’t tied up many guys, but I find the stories of how I’ve managed to subdue men in real life worth sharing. For some of these guys…

Oct 28, 2019

The Men I’ve Tied Up: Phil

Oct 28, 2019

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The Powerful Role of Hand Gags in Male Bondage

When I was growing up, a scene from the 1990 IT miniseries always intrigued me. It was when “The Loser’s Club” banded together to face…

Jul 6, 2019

The Powerful Role of Hand Gags in Male Bondage

Jul 6, 2019

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Dressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better Captives…

Abduction as Romance for Women vs. Punishment for Being Desirable for Men

Apr 8, 2019

Dressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better Captives…

Apr 8, 2019

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Dressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better Captives

To recap some aspects of my lengthy and rambly context section, visuals and aesthetics can convey a lot about a character and a situation…

Apr 3, 2019

Dressed in Your Sunday’s Best with Nowhere to Go: Why Dapper Gentlemen Make for Better Captives

Apr 3, 2019

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The Men I’ve Tied Up: Carl

I haven’t tied up many guys, but I find the stories of how I’ve managed to subdue men in real life worth sharing. For some of these guys…

Mar 16, 2019

The Men I’ve Tied Up: Carl

Mar 16, 2019

Thoughtful Fetishist

What is a bear if he isn’t stereotypically rugged or masculine?

When I still lived at my mom’s, she would typically make Valentine’s Day about my siblings and I since she has been single for significant…

Feb 16, 2019

What is a bear if he isn’t stereotypically rugged or masculine?

Feb 16, 2019

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Why I Write About Bondage

To preface this post, I want note that I bring up some personal things. I say this because I don’t want readers to check out from my…

Feb 5, 2019

Why I Write About Bondage

Feb 5, 2019

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Sticks and Stones may Break my Bones, But Context for Kidnappings Excites Me: An Explanation of Why…

Being in the Way and Getting Taken Out of Commission

Jan 28, 2019

Sticks and Stones may Break my Bones, But Context for Kidnappings Excites Me: An Explanation of Why…

Jan 28, 2019

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I am Reluctantly His

My body jiggled and bounced with every bump in the road. I rested my head awkwardly on the backseat of a car, trying to let the hum of the…

Jan 17, 2019

I am Reluctantly His

Jan 17, 2019

Thoughtful Fetishist

Thoughtful Fetishist

This is my attempt to humanize male bondage by offering a personal perspective, some analysis, and erotic fiction.

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