PinnedTimna SheffeyStop Telling Me To Heal — I’m Quietly AdaptingSeparating from someone we love and care about is a lifelong experience that we endure many times. We begin life with a separation from…6 min read·May 6, 2024--16--16
PinnedTimna SheffeyI Love My Scar — Finally, My Outside Matches My InsideMetaphors are often used in therapy as tools for understanding emotional traumas. They can be used to reframe and shift perspectives for a…3 min read·Jul 28, 2023--138--138
PinnedTimna Sheffey100 Things I Learned During The First Year After My Daughter DiedOne year ago today, my youngest daughter Orli died almost exactly six months after her 19th birthday. Before that terrible phone call…7 min read·Feb 12, 2023--10--10
PinnedTimna SheffeyWhen Joy and Tragedy MeetSeeing the Light Despite the Darkness4 min read·Mar 5, 2024--16--16
Timna SheffeyHow Learning To Play Guitar Is Helping Me HealMy family saved my life — playing guitar soothes my soul5 min read·Apr 24, 2024--2--2
Timna SheffeyWhat Do I Do With All Her Things?These unopened boxes lie heavily on my soul6 min read·Apr 6, 2024--2--2
Timna SheffeyLike A Cherry Blossom — Life is Beautiful But FleetingLove is like cherry blossoms… they bloom at the first promise of the spring, they beautify even the most grey landscape, they scatter at…3 min read·Mar 19, 2024--2--2
Timna Sheffey100 More Things I Learned During The Second Year After My Daughter DiedToday marks two years since my daughter died. The shock has lessened slightly but not the pain. I see her so alive in my mind while holding…8 min read·Feb 11, 2024--5--5
Timna SheffeyLosing Your Child Is Like Suffering Death By 1000 CutsWhen your child dies you first feel a searing, stabbing, wrenching, gutting pain that seems unsurvivable. It feels like a major artery has…4 min read·Jan 23, 2024--5--5