PinnedThomas WedgeYears into Divorce with a NarcissistFirst of all I am not a psychologist or magician. I am ordinary older man who’s 2nd marriage dissolved even though I didn’t want it to…Jun 131Jun 131
PinnedThomas WedgeDo you want a secure, connected, meaningful relationship?What do we do? We stop talking, get resentful, become critical and conversations go away. Often by the time you get to therapy (usually one…Oct 21, 20233Oct 21, 20233
PinnedThomas WedgeWomen Must Take Responsibility for what the relationship with their fathers did to themThis is my response to this Medium article: https://medium.com/the-memoirist/daddy-daddy-you-bastard-im-through-bb8f039e59ebMay 192May 192
PinnedThomas WedgeWomen Struggle to Self ActualizeAs a man who married a younger woman the second time around, I found your essay with its value throwbacks refreshing, enjoyable…Jun 52Jun 52
PinnedThomas WedgeinILLUMINATIONDivorced with Minor ChildrenIn round figures there are 700,000 divorces in the US each year.Apr 73Apr 73
PinnedThomas WedgeinILLUMINATIONTruth Is Either Kryptonite or Freedom for Women Who Have Been Sexually AbusedIn Jordan Peterson’s book The Twelve Rules For Life the 8th rule is to tell the Truth or Not Lie.Apr 171Apr 171
Thomas WedgeNot everyone is responsible or accountable in their lives or parenting.Not. You find out about it when you hire the lawyer.2d ago12d ago1
Thomas WedgeOn my refrigerator is the only paragraph necessary to make all long term relationships and…If you want a secure, connected long term relationship, read this.Jun 22Jun 22
Thomas WedgeHere is Gabor Mate articulating the ways you can begin to recover from Traumahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmJOuTAk09gJun 221Jun 221
Thomas WedgeThis is a good and accurate story about what is visible in narc abuse and what is not.In my case there was NO reconciliation or resolution of any kind. A rupture was never reviewed or talked about. It disappeared for the narc…Jun 221Jun 221