15 years of online dating…I’m here to roast myself for being on dating apps before Tinder was founded. Periodically, I’ll get a note that there are no profiles left…Feb 24, 2023Feb 24, 2023
A Spreadsheet for Non-Monogamous DatingAKA the power rankings of all my lovers i love, the lovers i used to love, and the lovers i don’t have to loveDec 16, 2022Dec 16, 2022
The Ultimate Gift Guide for Your PolyculeEven if gift-giving isn’t your love language, here are a list of the best things for everyone in your polycule.Dec 10, 2020Dec 10, 2020
Published insad girl polyamoryShe’s Not Me: An ode to the uncomplicated woman I will never be“What fucking Ian guy?” ➡ “What fucking Lily girl?” and 20 years of loathing the Ians/Lilys of my life.Mar 5, 2020Mar 5, 2020
Published insad girl polyamoryPolyamory Insights: Relationship Transitions and Negotiating BreakupsWhen I was going through my divorce, I had a lot of grief to process. It manifested in my writing which became quite dark. My anger was…Oct 4, 2019Oct 4, 2019
Published insad girl polyamorypolyamory and breakups: a relationship post-mortemAnd how breakups will be always be a common denominator between polyamorous and monogamous folksAug 20, 20181Aug 20, 20181
Published insad girl polyamoryReliving Past LivesAvoiding remnants of our relationship while passing through the JetBlue terminal at SFOJul 7, 2017Jul 7, 2017
Published insad girl polyamoryThe worst kind of polyamory is no polyamory at allLosing couple privilege and embracing solo polyamoryJan 29, 20171Jan 29, 20171
Published insad girl polyamoryI never wanted to be a wife, now I’m going to be an ex-wife… and the latest villain in his storyJan 10, 2017Jan 10, 2017
Published insad girl polyamorySingle-ishMy relationship status just got more complicated than “married and dating.”Dec 29, 20161Dec 29, 20161
