How to tell if a (male) stranger is interested in you

You are walking down the street at an art fair in your hometown. A tall, handsome man approaches you and smiles, says “You’re really beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that.” You smile and blush. After a few minutes of small talk, he…

What to do when you don’t feel “the spark”

Sometimes women will ignore objective criteria for a guy, and instead rely only on subjective, feelings-based standards.

For instance, if a woman has a body type that I find sexy, an IQ of 120, and rates as a 9 out of 10, I am…

My boyfriend tells me I’m beautiful and I know he means it, but it’s hard for me to feel beautiful, because I don’t have a very big butt.

Hold on there just a sec. When a guy says you are beautiful, he is not talking about your body, he is talking about your face. When he says you are sexy, he is talking about your body.

Why Being Beautiful Is Overrated

I know lots of women who are constantly seeking attention and validation. This usually comes in the form of “Oh I’m so ugly today… I’m so unattractive…” to which people will respond “Oh no, you’re so pretty, so beautiful, I wish I looked like you/had a girlfriend like…

How To Dress To Attract Men

I know you spend a lot of time following the latest fashions, buying outfits, and figuring out what to wear. I thought I would give some tips as to what men see when they look at you, so you can get better results with less work. So, first things first.

Never Hack Your Boyfriend’s Phone To See Who He’s Been Texting

Don’t.

Do Men Like Smart Women?

That’s a hard question to answer. Here are some thoughts on that topic:

Don’t Correct Others. Even if they’re wrong and you’re right, it’s still not the way to win friends (or dates).

“I Only Date Rich Guys Over 6'4”

First of all, if you say something like this IRL or on your dating profile, no decent guy will date you. I’m tall and it really offends me when a woman says she won’t date short men, as if they are somehow not good enough for her. Also, I make a decent income, but I’m not…

Men don’t think babies are cute.

If you can imagine holding a gallon-sized ziplock bag that’s half full of beef juice, that’s pretty much the same sensation as holding a baby for a guy.

Puppies are cute. Rabbits are too. Some guys don’t like cats, but kittens can be cute.

What Men Want

I’ve had a couple women tell me that men are complicated, and it’s impossible to understand what men want.

I disagree, I think we’re actually really simple.

Every guy has in his head a picture of the ideal woman for him, and he wants the woman that he…