Half-Asian sublimation

My unexpected, internalized racism 

Self-Care or Suicide

What’s the difference?

The Twilight Zone of Womanhood

Sexuality and our Loss of Self

I am middle-aged, and I feel beautiful. There I said it. What’s more, I am surrounded by middle-aged women (aka my ladies) who are also beautiful. Infinitely so. One of them has the bounciest walk in…

Rejecting Society, Embracing Myself

A day’s reflection

Dear Body,

A love letter.

Dear Body,

You have endured the countless bruises of my adolescence — the scrapes and cuts and burns that followed after learning how to ride your first two-wheeler or bake your first cake. You have been fractured, broken and torn in…

I haven’t done this to myself.

Facing my body shame.

I’ve delayed writing this blog entry because I’m ashamed. I don’t want to “put this out there”. But, I think I’m damaging myself by not dealing with it and admitting to myself how I feel about my body’s present…