This is a woman who writes that she was wrong to consider herself more interesting and better than ordinary guys, and admits that chasing after mysterious & apathetic “alphas” was silly.

She also doesn’t pity herself for her choices or humblebrag about how good she is at pleasing shitty men. And more than that, she never…

To add to that, Sara…

There was also something distinct about growing up knowing that David Bowie was married to a woman and dressed like an ordinary man, yet was still weird.

When I was a teenager, I fantasized about being able to fill out “david bowie” as both my race and my gender. He was proof…

Oh yeah. But I think they know what they’re doing. I think many of them get that it takes a lot of coordination and exploitation to make their jobs feel so glamorous and so divorced from ugliness.

Silicon Valley culture is just a less extreme version of that. The exploited people are the various service employees that they…