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A Trip Down Memory Lane
A Trip Down Memory Lane
I saw Beautiful: The Carole King Musical and I was enthralled
The Good Men Project
May 30
Mindful Resistance: Doing Less Frequently
Mindful Resistance: Doing Less Frequently
Sometimes, nothing is just what you should be working on.
The Good Men Project
May 30
Restless Mind
Restless Mind
Constant thinking steals our joy.
Lost in My Soul
May 30
Why Hard Work Alone Isn’t Enough: Unpacking the Myth of the Modern Man’s Hustle Culture
Why Hard Work Alone Isn’t Enough: Unpacking the Myth of the Modern Man’s Hustle Culture
Nobody needs to tell you how you should live or should or shouldn’t be as a man.
The Good Men Project
May 30
What’s Not on the Bill
What’s Not on the Bill
The best part of what feels like a bad deal at first might be something you’ll easily miss if you don’t blink twice.
The Good Men Project
May 29
The Great Escape
The Great Escape
Why we need to leave the past behind to find ourselves.
Lost in My Soul
May 29
How to Feel Good Again After Divorce
How to Feel Good Again After Divorce
Rebuilding My Life with 9 Kids: A Personal Journey and Practical Guide
Julie Gaeta
May 29
‘Now’s the Time’: Until We See the Problem Clearly and Realize It’s Us, Why Should We Expect…
‘Now’s the Time’: Until We See the Problem Clearly and Realize It’s Us, Why Should We Expect…
Exclusive first-look story from the newly-released collection “This Kind of Man” by Sean Murphy
The Good Men Project
May 29
Why Your Career Is Your Greatest Financial Asset?
Why Your Career Is Your Greatest Financial Asset?
When you’re investing in assets, what would be your greatest financial asset? Your house? Your investments?
The Good Men Project
May 28
There Is Good Worth Working For
There Is Good Worth Working For
A spiritually eclectic peacemaker is facing a moral dilemma.
The Good Men Project
May 27
Men and Trauma: Most of Us Won’t Even Use the Word ‘Fear’
Men and Trauma: Most of Us Won’t Even Use the Word ‘Fear’
This is where we have to start: by eradicating the stigma of men talking about abuse.
The Good Men Project
May 27
Is There Such a Thing as a “Human Calling”?
Is There Such a Thing as a “Human Calling”?
And how do you know if you have it?
Zackary Henson
May 26
Seed Within
Seed Within
A single moment can change your life forever.
Lost in My Soul
May 26
11 Weight Loss Strategies for Those Over 50
11 Weight Loss Strategies for Those Over 50
As we age, our metabolism naturally slows down, making it more challenging to maintain or lose weight. This is especially true once we hit…
The Good Men Project
May 26
The Sweet Scent of Decay
The Sweet Scent of Decay
To seventeen-year-old me, that kiss was sex.
The Good Men Project
May 26
How to Have an Attitude of Gratitude
How to Have an Attitude of Gratitude
It’s a matter of training your brain to see the good, and when you do that, you will begin seeing more good.
The Good Men Project
May 25
How to Overcome Obstacles to Achieve Long Term Goals
How to Overcome Obstacles to Achieve Long Term Goals
Use the Law of R.O.A.R. to achieve success.
The Good Men Project
May 25
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Relegated to the Dull Track
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Relegated to the Dull Track
Many very bright children end up in the dull category or in the not worth educating category, with lifelong negative consequences.
The Good Men Project
May 25
Desert of Love
Desert of Love
How to open yourself up after heartbreak.
Lost in My Soul
May 25
Is Relapse Part of Recovery?
Is Relapse Part of Recovery?
Do you want a loved one in recovery thinking that relapse is inevitable?
The Good Men Project
May 25
Your Own Burdens Are Light
Your Own Burdens Are Light
Failing is what builds muscle.
The Good Men Project
May 24
22 Years of Marriage, 9 Kids Later: How His Affair Transformed My Life
22 Years of Marriage, 9 Kids Later: How His Affair Transformed My Life
Three unexpected gifts that came from our divorce.
Julie Gaeta
May 24
A Mother’s Day I Thought I Would Never Have
A Mother’s Day I Thought I Would Never Have
A memory forever burned in my soul.
Doña Monica
May 24
The Song of the Forest
The Song of the Forest
Inspiring Takeaways from a Hike
Kunal Mehra
May 24
20 Truths About Aging That Will Make You Rethink Your Life
20 Truths About Aging That Will Make You Rethink Your Life
Experiencing a decline in cognitive functions such as memory, concentration, and problem-solving skills is a stark reminder of aging.
The Good Men Project
May 24
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