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Still Got It!
Still Got It!
A little exercise and nostalgia? Both of those can go a long way.
The Good Men Project
Jul 5
A Powerful Question for You After Divorce
A Powerful Question for You After Divorce
Creating a life you love after divorce: A step-by-step guide.
Julie Gaeta
Jul 4
Navigating Love After Loss: Insights and Advice for Dating a Widower
Navigating Love After Loss: Insights and Advice for Dating a Widower
Understanding the complexities and embracing the journey.
Deborah Holmén
Jul 4
Cities Respond to Global Pollinator Decline
Cities Respond to Global Pollinator Decline
From pocket parks to large-scale projects, cities around the world are working to reverse a troubling trend.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
Finding the Middle Ground: Why Going All Out 24/7 Is Dumb
Finding the Middle Ground: Why Going All Out 24/7 Is Dumb
Life’s way better when you’re not always on the edge.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
What Dreams Can Do for You
What Dreams Can Do for You
Analyzing my dreams triggered an exploration of my current circumstances.
The Good Men Project
Jul 4
The Art of Using Words
The Art of Using Words
Words that shape our lives: from first utterances to final goodbyes.
Jasmine Aneja
Jul 3
Faded Hopes: Dreaming of Better Days
Faded Hopes: Dreaming of Better Days
People are people, and people are uncomfortable with people they don’t know.
The Good Men Project
Jul 3
How to Make a Decision That Scares You
How to Make a Decision That Scares You
Why cultivating active patience, listening to your intuition, and maintaining confidence in difficult situations are important traits for…
The Good Men Project
Jul 3
My Not-So-Secret Garden
My Not-So-Secret Garden
Who would have thought that a New York City girl like me would become a gardener on our 31st floor balcony?
The Good Men Project
Jul 2
Unconditional You
Unconditional You
Finding happiness wherever you choose to be.
Lost in My Soul
Jul 2
Why Do We Hurt Ourselves?
Why Do We Hurt Ourselves?
Like moths to the flame, we fly towards it, again, and again, and again.
Paddy Murphy
Jul 2
The Big Impact of Small Gestures
The Big Impact of Small Gestures
Small gestures are most strongly felt once they are absent.
The Good Men Project
Jul 2
Waiting for Our Happiness to Arrive
Waiting for Our Happiness to Arrive
Waiting, always waiting
Harlyn Hannah
Jul 1
One Man’s Life-Changing Journey With Journaling: An Interview With Nishith Goyal
One Man’s Life-Changing Journey With Journaling: An Interview With Nishith Goyal
Journaling can help you lead a healthier, happier, and more purposeful life.
The Good Men Project
Jul 1
Feeling Like A Failure? Here Is What You Need To Know (and Do)
Feeling Like A Failure? Here Is What You Need To Know (and Do)
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” — Winston Churchill
Natalya Permyakova
Jul 1
Our 45-Year Men’s Group: Honoring Tony, a Man of Great Generosity and Patience
Our 45-Year Men’s Group: Honoring Tony, a Man of Great Generosity and Patience
We would take turns meeting in different places, sometimes in one of our homes, sometimes in another.
The Good Men Project
Jul 1
The Energy of Creation and the Drain of Comparison
The Energy of Creation and the Drain of Comparison
Limited thinking creates limited results.
The Good Men Project
Jun 30
Tolerance Is a Superpower
Tolerance Is a Superpower
Tolerance applies to almost everything in life.
The Good Men Project
Jun 30
Decision Fatigue in Health and Fitness
Decision Fatigue in Health and Fitness
Recently I had a conversation with a client centered around “Decision Fatigue” and how it was affecting her choices toward her nutrition…
Daniel Dodd, PhD.
Jun 29
My Expiration Date
My Expiration Date
I see my expiration date, it’s 2049.
The Good Men Project
Jun 29
From “Te Amo” to “Enough”: The Crumbling of Our American Dream in a Patriarchal Marriage
From “Te Amo” to “Enough”: The Crumbling of Our American Dream in a Patriarchal Marriage
9 children, 2 cultures, and a marriage I would’ve sworn was perfect
Julie Gaeta
Jun 29
Enough
Enough
When spring comes, I decide to survive.
The Good Men Project
Jun 29
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Dealing With Anti-Intellectualism
Journal Prompts for Smart People: Dealing With Anti-Intellectualism
It is a hallmark of fascism, and of the conservative and authoritarian forces in every society, to target its artists and intellectuals, as…
The Good Men Project
Jun 28
These 80-Year-Old Runners Are Probably Faster Than You. They’re Definitely Fitter.
These 80-Year-Old Runners Are Probably Faster Than You. They’re Definitely Fitter.
Is staying fast over fifty the key to a long health span?
The Good Men Project
Jun 28
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