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Are Men and Women Different? On Universal Sex Differences
Are Men and Women Different? On Universal Sex Differences
Nature? Nurture? Where do you think the line should be drawn?
The Good Men Project
Aug 12
The Ego’s Deception
The Ego’s Deception
Breaking Free to Find True Self
Lost in My Soul
Aug 12
Seven Steps to Manliness
Seven Steps to Manliness
My suggestions for growing positive masculinity in your life.
The Good Men Project
Aug 12
Solitude in the Crowd
Solitude in the Crowd
The Digital Age’s Loneliness Epidemic
Lost in My Soul
Aug 11
Tapping for Men: How to Release Pressure Through Tapping
Tapping for Men: How to Release Pressure Through Tapping
Dr. Peta Stapleton notes, “The evidence for EFT is compelling, with numerous clinical trials confirming its effectiveness in reducing…
The Good Men Project
Aug 11
Going Into ‘Monk Mode’ Really Can Boost Your Mental Health
Going Into ‘Monk Mode’ Really Can Boost Your Mental Health
It’s nothing short of a phenomenon: For the past year, TikTok users have been challenging themselves to limit their time spent on the…
The Good Men Project
Aug 11
A Semester Abroad at 60: The Amalfi Coast, Ravello & Catanzaro, Italy
A Semester Abroad at 60: The Amalfi Coast, Ravello & Catanzaro, Italy
We planned and embarked on an amazing journey to “jumpstart” our retirement that we will never forget.
The Good Men Project
Aug 10
I Don’t Want to Survive My Whole Life. What About You?
I Don’t Want to Survive My Whole Life. What About You?
Facing Profound Consequences: Let’s Talk About a Quick-Fix Mindset
Elena V Amber
Aug 9
The Human Mind is Like a Jet Airplane Flying on Just One Engine
The Human Mind is Like a Jet Airplane Flying on Just One Engine
What could you accomplish if you turned on ALL the engines?
Matt Karamazov
Aug 9
Role of Emotional Intelligence in Personal Growth
Role of Emotional Intelligence in Personal Growth
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to identify, comprehend, and control our feelings, as well as react intelligently to those of…
The Good Men Project
Aug 9
Homecoming: An Evolutionary Approach for Healing Depression and Preventing Suicide
Homecoming: An Evolutionary Approach for Healing Depression and Preventing Suicide
Part 1 of a series
The Good Men Project
Aug 8
Photography as Contemplative Practice
Photography as Contemplative Practice
In an age where everyone is constantly snapping photos with their smartphones, a growing movement is encouraging a mindful approach to…
The Good Men Project
Aug 8
Who Would I Encounter in a Psychomanteum?
Who Would I Encounter in a Psychomanteum?
Grieving people are invited to sit in the room, gaze into the mirror, and wait for their departed loved ones to either appear in the mirror…
The Good Men Project
Aug 8
Unearthing the Great Themes of Your Life
Unearthing the Great Themes of Your Life
Take a deeper look at most coincidences in your life, and underneath you’ll find rational stepping stones to their occurrence.
The Good Men Project
Aug 8
The View From the Passenger Seat
The View From the Passenger Seat
We don’t like not being in control.
The Good Men Project
Aug 8
Expressing Your Needs Is Vital. Here’s Why…
Expressing Your Needs Is Vital. Here’s Why…
You might be living a life meant for someone else.
Adam Slawson
Aug 8
Soul Evolution
Soul Evolution
Path to Spiritual Growth
Lost in My Soul
Aug 7
You Have Everything You Need Inside of You to Succeed and Feel Fulfilled
You Have Everything You Need Inside of You to Succeed and Feel Fulfilled
What I found was there are a lot of people who like me suffer from this. They’re people pleasers, or they just had this need to be…
The Good Men Project
Aug 7
Retired, Looking for Life
Retired, Looking for Life
A repriece from self-imposed lockdown
The Good Men Project
Aug 7
When You’re Married But Have Feelings for Someone Else, This Is What You Should Do
When You’re Married But Have Feelings for Someone Else, This Is What You Should Do
Don’t Hurt the One Who Loves You: Staying True to Your Marriage
Daphne Laffer
Aug 7
How To Become Invincible Through An Existential Crisis
How To Become Invincible Through An Existential Crisis
“Out of crisis comes clarity.” — Randolph Oates
Natalya Permyakova
Aug 7
Embracing the Hero Within
Embracing the Hero Within
My favorite part of the hero’s journey is the part where the hero crosses the threshold into the world of the unknown.
The Good Men Project
Aug 7
What to Do If You Missed Your Summer Fitness Goals
What to Do If You Missed Your Summer Fitness Goals
Remember, fitness is a lifelong journey, not a race. Missing your summer goals doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it simply means you have an…
Daniel Dodd, PhD.
Aug 6
How A Tough Mudder (and a Divorce) Became My Declaration of Independence
How A Tough Mudder (and a Divorce) Became My Declaration of Independence
Struggles to strength: 4 life-changing lessons from the mud
Julie Gaeta
Aug 6
My Meandering Path Toward Authenticity
My Meandering Path Toward Authenticity
My relatives did their best to mold me into the dominant cultural paradigm’s ideal of masculinity and away from any behavior that even…
The Good Men Project
Aug 6
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