Chronic Sex

Overcoming Insecurities

Disability and Sexuality

Having sex is weird for everyone but when you have a disability particularly a physical disability as I do it can be especially daunting. Now you’re probably thinking, ok so I have a disability or even if I don’t, should…

Worth

a poem

Content note: this poem is about general discrimination in our current world; topics discussed/mentioned include racism, ableism, transphobia, sexual assault, classism, incest, homophobia, suicide, xenophobia

“You’re not worthy,”

I Changed in November 2016 — And That’s Okay

In the mornings, I go through and schedule social media posts. It isn’t every…

Am I *really* trans instead of cis?

A discussion of my journey with gender identity

Discomfort as a Way of Life

Or, how being chronically ill and disabled lends towards bluntness

I Spent Rare Disease Day on the Couch

I had to sleep on the couch last night. I’ve spent 99% of my day on the couch, too.

I hate doing that.

My pain the last few days has been higher than I’ve wanted to admit, even to myself. Today, this…

A Directory of Sex and Disability Speakers

I wish this wasn’t a conversation we had to have in 2017 but, alas, it is.

Many conferences and talks centering on disability don’t include those of us with disabilities. This is especially true when it comes to sex and intimacy…

It’s Time to Call Out Sexism and Sexual Harassment in the Patient World