When Feminism Is a Brand

We need to talk about the ever increasing number of men like James Deen who…

When Going To The Doctor Means Losing Consent

I always thought it was strange that doctors were included in the list of people…

Your Fave Fantasy is Problematic.

It’s ok to have taboo desires, but what we find erotic doesn’t occur…

The Spirited Debate About Ghosting

I feel like I’m being haunted by the term “ghosting”. Every time I think all the hot takes have…

Faking It: Porn and Performativity

Porn gives me a place where I am forced to take up space- but does…

Advice is Like a Dick Pic- Stop Offering It Unsolicited.

“Do you want advice or sympathy?”

Consent Culture in the Dungeon: a “what you can do” guide for community members

A Meditation on “Abusers” Vs “Abusive Behaviors”

The Bachelorette, kissing, and consent

So who here watched Monday night’s episode of The Bachelorette (S13, E3) and cringed when…

The Bachelor Franchise Has a Consent Problem

I feel like I’m pretty late to the ”Bachelor” game, considering I only really…