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Fat. So?

This is the blog for the Fat. So? Podcast, where Pallavi and Ameya talk about the joys and sorrows of being fat women in India.

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Ameya Nagarajan in Fat. So?

Dec 14, 2020

Holding space

I saw this on Instagram this weekend and it really is something that needs to be said and remembered. It’s like levelling up a…

Pallavi Nath in Fat. So?

Oct 25, 2020

Maybe I am hard to love?

I’ve been catching myself saying this to myself quite often in the last few days. Do I make it difficult for a man to continue loving me? Do I make it hard to love me when I ask for what I want in a relationship? What about my body; is that hard to love — both metaphorically and…

Pallavi Nath in Fat. So?

Oct 11, 2020

Troll Alert!

So Ameya and I did our very first video interview with Brut India (links to the video below) and its got loads of views and likes and…

Ameya Nagarajan in Fat. So?

Sep 7, 2020

On the problem with love in art

I was wondering what to blog about and I realised that I felt so many impulses to comment on Pallavi’s last post that I should just make a post out of it myself. So if you haven’t read hers, go read it now, or this might not make complete sense.

Pallavi Nath in Fat. So?

Aug 30, 2020

Love is a many-splendoured work in progress…

If you are fat, it is a given that you have experienced rejection. And not just the “if you are human, you have experienced rejection” variety , but an advanced level. And not just from those closest to you — the parents and family and friends and…

Ameya Nagarajan in Fat. So?

Jul 18, 2020

If you love me, don’t dismiss me

Building on Pallavi’s post last week about fat friendship, I want to write about one thing that has bothered me for many years. It has to do with the other great cross I bear: being single.