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How To Date Without Being Too Picky or Settling
How To Date Without Being Too Picky or Settling
A Step-by-Step Framework to Filter Time Wasters and Find Your Ideal Partner
Manj Bahra
Jul 13
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
Men are different — here’s what you need to know
Manj Bahra
Jul 9
Are All The Good Guys Taken?
Are All The Good Guys Taken?
Someone needs to hear this today…
Manj Bahra
Jul 7
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How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
A battle-tested blueprint for reclaiming your sanity and getting back to your life
Manj Bahra
Mar 28
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Can’t stop thinking about another person? It’s time to check for Limerence
Manj Bahra
Mar 22
How To Date an Avoidant
How To Date an Avoidant
6 Key Steps to Create Safety and Deepen Intimacy (From a Former Avoidant)
Manj Bahra
Feb 1
4 Science-Backed Strategies to Create Closure Post Heartbreak
4 Science-Backed Strategies to Create Closure Post Heartbreak
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Mar 21
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Three psychological concepts you have to understand if you’re chasing an unrequited love
Manj Bahra
Oct 27, 2019
What To Do When You Can’t Get Over Someone
What To Do When You Can’t Get Over Someone
A blueprint for when a case of the oneitis strikes
Manj Bahra
Mar 11, 2020
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
It only leads to more pain — here’s why.
Manj Bahra
Mar 17
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Stop resisting rejection and grab the golden opportunity at hand
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Jan 19
A Complete Guide To Letting Go Of Romantic Rejection
A Complete Guide To Letting Go Of Romantic Rejection
A blueprint for acceptance and immense personal transformation
Manj Bahra
Jul 5, 2020
Texting You Often Doesn't Guarantee He's Interested — Look For This Instead
Texting You Often Doesn't Guarantee He's Interested — Look For This Instead
Don't fall for this common mistake — here's what to focus on instead
Manj Bahra
Mar 19
The 5 Stages of Moving On from Heartbreak
The 5 Stages of Moving On from Heartbreak
What to expect on your healing journey — my insights from five years of relationship coaching
Manj Bahra
Jan 25
Neuroscience’s Best-Kept Secret for Combating Anxiety
Neuroscience’s Best-Kept Secret for Combating Anxiety
Struggle with anxiety? Quit trying to think your way out and try this instead.
Manj Bahra
Jan 22
10 Strategies To Move On From Heartbreak
10 Strategies To Move On From Heartbreak
From Heartbreak to Healing: Lessons from Five Years of Relationship Coaching
Manj Bahra
Nov 8, 2023
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Before you decide it’s love, make sure you know the five stages of projection.
Manj Bahra
Jan 17, 2023
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