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5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
Secrets from their success
Manj Bahra
Sep 20
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
How to spot warning signals before it’s too late
Manj Bahra
Aug 23
An Equation That Will Change Your Dating Life
An Equation That Will Change Your Dating Life
I wish someone had shown me this 20 years ago
Manj Bahra
Aug 2
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The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
Men are different — here’s what you need to know
Manj Bahra
Jul 9
How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
A battle-tested blueprint for reclaiming your sanity and getting back to your life
Manj Bahra
Mar 28
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
A blueprint for moving on from the pain of rejection
Manj Bahra
Nov 9, 2019
Why Do I Keep Dating Emotionally Unavailable People?
Why Do I Keep Dating Emotionally Unavailable People?
Three factors are causing you to experience this pain repeatedly.
Manj Bahra
Jul 19, 2022
Why Hot and Cold Behaviour Is So Attractive
Why Hot and Cold Behaviour Is So Attractive
A look at three psychological effects that make this age-old tactic so effective — even when you aren’t that interested
Manj Bahra
Mar 20, 2021
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Three psychological concepts you have to understand if you’re chasing an unrequited love
Manj Bahra
Oct 27, 2019
3 Ways I Healed My Avoidant Attachment
3 Ways I Healed My Avoidant Attachment
The steps that helped me face my fears, open myself to love, and finally commit.
Manj Bahra
Feb 15
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Before you decide it’s love, make sure you know the five stages of projection.
Manj Bahra
Jan 17, 2023
How to Get People Invested in You
How to Get People Invested in You
Simple, easy, effective. Learn the counter-intuitive trick that gets people invested in you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 9, 2019
Are Your Dating Beliefs Becoming Self-Fulfilling Prophecies?
Are Your Dating Beliefs Becoming Self-Fulfilling Prophecies?
What you must understand about your brain and beliefs
Manj Bahra
May 29
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
It only leads to more pain — here’s why.
Manj Bahra
Mar 17
Why Unpredictability Is So Attractive
Why Unpredictability Is So Attractive
Why is unpredictability so damn attractive? Learn the secrets behind the chemical that causes incredible attraction in all humans.
Manj Bahra
Apr 7, 2019
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Stop resisting rejection and grab the golden opportunity at hand
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Sometimes you just need to be honest instead of putting yourself through more pain
Manj Bahra
Apr 13, 2020
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