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An Equation That Will Change Your Dating Life
An Equation That Will Change Your Dating Life
I wish someone had shown me this 20 years ago
Manj Bahra
Aug 2
Can You Actually Heal Your Attachment Style?
Can You Actually Heal Your Attachment Style?
The truth based on 100s of client experiences
Manj Bahra
Jul 26
How To Date Without Being Too Picky or Settling
How To Date Without Being Too Picky or Settling
A Step-by-Step Framework to Filter Time Wasters and Find Your Ideal Partner
Manj Bahra
Jul 13
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We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
We Have Great Connection — Why Won’t He Commit?
Men are different — here’s what you need to know
Manj Bahra
Jul 9
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
How to Break Free From Limerence: A Step-by-Step Guide to Moving On
A battle-tested blueprint for reclaiming your sanity and getting back to your life
Manj Bahra
Mar 28
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Can’t stop thinking about another person? It’s time to check for Limerence
Manj Bahra
Mar 22
How To Date an Avoidant
How To Date an Avoidant
6 Key Steps to Create Safety and Deepen Intimacy (From a Former Avoidant)
Manj Bahra
Feb 1
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
The brutal truth about most rejection
Manj Bahra
Jul 6, 2022
Why You Repeat Patterns in Dating
Why You Repeat Patterns in Dating
The lesser-known science & psychology influencing your behaviour (it’s not just your attachment style)
Manj Bahra
Jan 23
What To Do When You Can’t Get Over Someone
What To Do When You Can’t Get Over Someone
A blueprint for when a case of the oneitis strikes
Manj Bahra
Mar 11, 2020
Are All The Good Guys Taken?
Are All The Good Guys Taken?
Someone needs to hear this today…
Manj Bahra
Jul 7
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends
It only leads to more pain — here’s why.
Manj Bahra
Mar 17
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
A blueprint for moving on from the pain of rejection
Manj Bahra
Nov 9, 2019
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Stop resisting rejection and grab the golden opportunity at hand
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Sometimes you just need to be honest instead of putting yourself through more pain
Manj Bahra
Apr 13, 2020
Three Principles For The First Date
Three Principles For The First Date
Want to get the most out of a first date as quickly as possible? This is the guide for you.
Manj Bahra
Apr 17, 2023
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Is marriage a good idea, or an antiquated institution due for decommission?
Manj Bahra
Mar 19, 2020
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